ugh sorry i'm annoying about this but...

Okay so because my big worry is that people from New York won't want to spend the cash to come down to Florida for my wedding, we thought maybe if a lot of people from New York DON'T come, we could like have a lil party up here the summer after we get married...

A lot of the people that I'm inviting from up here are students, and it's possible that they won't really be able to afford to come down.... but i really want to celebrate with them because I love them... but then i feel like by having that extra party or whatever that i'd be begging for gifts, and i certainly do NOT want to do that...

thats like me, my entire family lives in a different country and they wanted me to have a wedding there also. I agreed and then proceeded to say 'if YOU pay for it I'll do it'-enough said!

So then I said I'll come visit after the wedding (for those that couldnt fly over here ) and we'll have a night out at the bar-simple, not expensive, and the whole fam is there!

I think it's a great idea also..... a small initmite party up here & then one down there..... actually works out in your favor.... because you'll get to celebrate twice!