Ok so my FSIL is my Matron and my best friend is my maid. My best friend can be bosy at times. I was just on the phone with my FH and I said 'I know about the shower' I am kidding of course. He says 'well then you know more then my sister' I ask 'what do you mean?' He says my sister keeps calling her and asking her and all she says is 'shes looking at places' My FSIL wants to help so bad. Besides shes in her 30's and is married and has been to and been part of plenty of showers including her own shower since she has 4 kids. I threw her a baby shower since I am the god mother of her son. I told my FH to tell my friend like 'has my sister gone with you to look at any places? Cause she said she wanted to.' I dont know what to do. I am stuck in the middle I don't want her to be left out she has the same 'job title' as my best friend! I don't know what to do. I can't say anything!
civic24ex
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Unfortionatly there is not much you yourself can do but I think what you said about fh talking to your friend is a good idea. Maybe if she hears it from him, since she is his sister, your friend will include your fsil in the planning. Besides I would think she would want some help planning it, there is alot that needs to be done an extra hand is always a good thing. Plus as you said she has plenty ofexperince, maybe fh can mention that aso. I hope every thing works out for you!!
razz1031
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I definitely think your FH should speak to your best friend. Maybe tell her that it would be nice if she could include your FSIL in the planning since they are supposed to be doing it together, as a team.
