Ugh, too laid back???

Ugh, too laid back???

My stupid co-worker is getting to me. She commented that I am too laid back of a bride and things aren't going to look good. ***?!

I'm actually pretty anal about all of this wedding crap. But when it comes to the bridal party, I want them to feel good and like themselves. The girls are wearing navy j crew dresses, the guys are wearing their own grey suits, with white shirts and ties we'll purchase for them.

I think the slightly ecclectic look will work. Apparently my co-worker disagrees.

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i think it will look good!!

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don't listen to your coworker! I think that will look cute and if thats the look your going for who cares what she says!

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I think it's gonna look great too...Let other people have their opinions, it's YOUR wedding so do what you want...

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That's funny,...I don't remember reading that you asked for her comments....tell her to mind it until you ask for her opinion.....

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I think you're fine. I'm going to try and be lax with my BP too because I don't want them stressing or anything. Some people don't realize that it's important to try and keep people comfortable and then they pass judgment.

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um how about when she gets married she can be a crazy bridezilla gorilla woman, but in the meantime youre the bride at your wedding which actually doesnt include her opinions

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I would not listen to her it’s your wedding she is probably just jealous

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Thats exactly what I'm going through here! I just politely nod and smile and say thank you for the advice (even though I never asked for it or wanted it!) but I totally ignore everything that was said. Let them deal with this when they plan their own wedding!

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I think it'll work great! Just close your ears when your co worker starts her yapping

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Tell her to shove it.

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Posted by IrishCro

My stupid co-worker is getting to me. She commented that I am too laid back of a bride and things aren't going to look good. ***?!

I'm actually pretty anal about all of this wedding crap. But when it comes to the bridal party, I want them to feel good and like themselves. The girls are wearing navy j crew dresses, the guys are wearing their own grey suits, with white shirts and ties we'll purchase for them.

I think the slightly ecclectic look will work. Apparently my co-worker disagrees.

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Seriously, don't take it personally. It sounds really really nice and well coordinated. Things don't have to be perfect. You'll be happy knowing that everyone is comfortable.

Shes just jealous Don't let the haters get to you!

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i would just ignore it personally...

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you're co-worker is an idiot who obviously knows nothing about weddings. tell her to suckk it. lol