UGH!!! VENT

Sorry girls, you're gonna get this since my peeps are sleeping, which I should be doing. Here goes......

I cannot stand my brothers girlfriend mainly because I think she is a fake arse female dog. It is safe to say that I cannot hide the fact that I cannot stand her. My mother insists on inviting her to my bridal shower, why because blah blah blah the right thing to do. Anyway so because I just know she is hiding something, I decided to google her. Found her profile on an OKcupid website that has just been recently updated and logged onto. I am infuriated. She lives with my brother UNEMPLOYED, while my brother goes out and works 70 hours a week to make sure she can go to school and have a roof over her head and food on the table. I am tempted to make up a fake profile and start talking to her. Me and my brother aren't the closest but I have always been there to protect him and I'm ready to rip this chick to shreds. I'm not sure if I should tell my brother at all. UGH UGH UGH !!!!!

Oh wow I can imagine ur fustration. Is their relationship serious?!
Some ppl may say don't do it it's non of ya buzz but I would do it for my bro....
Sorry Chica. I'll tell him. But don't make da fake profile. Das ur brothers job if he wants to do it not urs.

The immaturity in me says Yes - make a profile!! Hit her where it hurts!!!

But unfortunately, reason wins out and that's prob not the best thing to do. However, I fully support you printing the info (so you can show your brother PROOF) and then confronting her.

'Oh..so-and-so is trying to pick an online dating site. Do you know any good ones? Ever heard of OKCupid?' ...something like that LOL

I think it's crueler to catch her that way then to play at her game - she could just use it against you.

As for the bridal shower - if you get drunk, oh well.lol. At least you'll get another gift!

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Posted by MarryingMyBFF1110

'Oh..so-and-so is trying to pick an online dating site. Do you know any good ones? Ever heard of OKCupid?' ...something like that LOL

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This sounds like something I would do ...

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Posted by MarryingMyBFF1110

The immaturity in me says Yes - make a profile!! Hit her where it hurts!!!

But unfortunately, reason wins out and that's prob not the best thing to do. However, I fully support you printing the info (so you can show your brother PROOF) and then confronting her.

'Oh..so-and-so is trying to pick an online dating site. Do you know any good ones? Ever heard of OKCupid?' ...something like that LOL

I think it's crueler to catch her that way then to play at her game - she could just use it against you.

As for the bridal shower - if you get drunk, oh well.lol. At least you'll get another gift!

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This whole thing!

O M G
that is insane!!!! i think it would be so much fun to catch her in her game (by setting up an account and chatting with her)....but that can become a veryyy bad situation!
I would def show it to your brother, but i would be prepared...she will prob come up with excuses...'oh i used that before we met and now my friend logs on under my name....'

but at least if your bro confronts her maybe she will stop
good luck!

Definitely tell your brother. but be prepared. this may cause a fight between you two cause he will probable take her side...that's just what usually happens. I have a cousin who is with a girl that has cheated on him more than once (little sl*t). they've broken up 3 times. (even were engaged at one point) and he just took her back again. IDIOT! but no matter what - we can never say anything. cause he is so blinded by her! it's crazy. so we just don't say anything.

i know you are looking out for him cause that's what siblings do. Definitely tell him. It's what he chooses to do with the info after that matters.... it just sucks that this is happening around your wedding. sorry you are dealing with this crap.

And even if you hate her she needs to be invited to your shower. don't let anything ruin your day. even if you drink! get buzzed and be happy. it's supposed to be a happy day!

GO BROOKLYN!!!!!!!!!!! (I am from there too lol)

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Posted by MarryingMyBFF1110

The immaturity in me says Yes - make a profile!! Hit her where it hurts!!!

But unfortunately, reason wins out and that's prob not the best thing to do. However, I fully support you printing the info (so you can show your brother PROOF) and then confronting her.

'Oh..so-and-so is trying to pick an online dating site. Do you know any good ones? Ever heard of OKCupid?' ...something like that LOL

I think it's crueler to catch her that way then to play at her game - she could just use it against you.

As for the bridal shower - if you get drunk, oh well.lol. At least you'll get another gift!

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I would totally do this...seriously i would make a fake profile and print it all out....what a snake

i don't know, this is a hard call.

my brother and i got into a fight over his girlfriend (and some other things) and we haven't spoken in over two years, so i don't know if it's worth it to get involved.

wowwww! What a biatch! Your brother needs to know but prepare yourself for hell unleashed by this chick. Worst case scenario is your brother STILL stays with her and she turns him against you I've seen this happen unfortunately because people can be SO stupid. Wake up!!!

this girl cheated on her bf to start messing with DH and I's friend. He believed that she was over the other guy but I knew for a fact that she still messed with him. long story short, DH and I cut out our friend because there was no reasoning with him and he always believed what she had to say. The last straw was when DH and I found out she was ENGAGED to her boyfriend (lived out of state) and our friend didn't believe us.

fast forward a year and guess what? she got MARRIED and there were pics on FB and she was still talking to our friend the week before the wedding!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMGGGG i never knew a wretched biatch like this existed.

anyway, our friend finally couldnt argue with PICTURES of her WEDDING and you know what? he came and thanked us for trying to warn him so many times. And we are friends again...

my point of this long a$$ reply is that sometimes, people just have to find out for their damn self. I do think your brother needs to be warned but if he doesn't listen, just let him live his life. you can't say you didn't try, KWIM?

eta: for pam ^ DH and I didn't hang out with this guy for over a year since he started messing with this girl but he came around and realized we were only trying to watch out for him. I hope your brother comes around too

Honestly- I am VERY close with all my Siblings and probally the most protective. Some girl ever did that to my Brother I would print it and embarress her in front of everyone. I would ruin her.

However that is my immature catty side.


IDK My brother would believe me and take my side so if you know he would show him. If you think 'Love' is blinding him mail it to him and let him figure it out don't put your name on it. I know it sounds so Jersey Shore but no girl is worth your relationship with your family.

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

eta: for pam ^ DH and I didn't hang out with this guy for over a year since he started messing with this girl but he came around and realized we were only trying to watch out for him. I hope your brother comes around too

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thanks.. let's hope <3

I'm sorry you haven't spoken to your brother....hopefully he comes around soon.

Just spoke with mommadukes since of course I had to forward everything I found out, followed by my famous I told you I didn't like the Biatch. She's none too pleased. Luckily I think she is wearing her welcome out with my brother. We (me, mom and bro) are weird we'll take and take and take and then one day when we've had enough without warning we're just like Fudge it. It is only the three of us and even though me and bro aren't close each of us is close to our mom. I know for darned sure she isn't turning him against our mother. She can try to turn him against me and that's fine since we barely speak anyway, but at least he'll know what is going on and if thats the risk than I'll deal. Me and the GF have an amazing relationship where she knows I can't stand her and I know she can't stand me. This is the only GF he has had that I cannot stand. It just really bugs the crap out of me. He took her in, she wanted my mothers first floor apt and pushed for it she got it even though my brother wasn't too keen on taking it. She doesn't work. Doesn't contribute. She thinks shes got my mother snowed, but mom can't stand her either but will play nice. What she didn't bank on was me since I'm not around that much. Thanks girls for all your input =)

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

Definitely tell your brother. but be prepared. this may cause a fight between you two cause he will probable take her side...that's just what usually happens. I have a cousin who is with a girl that has cheated on him more than once (little sl*t). they've broken up 3 times. (even were engaged at one point) and he just took her back again. IDIOT! but no matter what - we can never say anything. cause he is so blinded by her! it's crazy. so we just don't say anything.

i know you are looking out for him cause that's what siblings do. Definitely tell him. It's what he chooses to do with the info after that matters.... it just sucks that this is happening around your wedding. sorry you are dealing with this crap.

And even if you hate her she needs to be invited to your shower. don't let anything ruin your day. even if you drink! get buzzed and be happy. it's supposed to be a happy day!

GO BROOKLYN!!!!!!!!!!! (I am from there too lol)

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You're getting married at El Caribe!!! I used to live not far from there!!!

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Posted by cmwals01

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Posted by FDNYwife1029

Definitely tell your brother. but be prepared. this may cause a fight between you two cause he will probable take her side...that's just what usually happens. I have a cousin who is with a girl that has cheated on him more than once (little sl*t). they've broken up 3 times. (even were engaged at one point) and he just took her back again. IDIOT! but no matter what - we can never say anything. cause he is so blinded by her! it's crazy. so we just don't say anything.

i know you are looking out for him cause that's what siblings do. Definitely tell him. It's what he chooses to do with the info after that matters.... it just sucks that this is happening around your wedding. sorry you are dealing with this crap.

And even if you hate her she needs to be invited to your shower. don't let anything ruin your day. even if you drink! get buzzed and be happy. it's supposed to be a happy day!

GO BROOKLYN!!!!!!!!!!! (I am from there too lol)

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You're getting married at El Caribe!!! I used to live not far from there!!!

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YES! we bought a house in SI, so we are having our ceremony at a church by our home. & then reception at el caribe!

id print that shlt out and call her dumb asssss out on it!!

tell your brother Immedialty!!!

he will be more mad if he knew you knew and didnt say anything to him!!

and make sure you do it in front of someone else so she cant deny or make up the whole thing, cause little weasel bittches like that will worm their way out of anything!

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Posted by MarryingMyBFF1110

The immaturity in me says Yes - make a profile!! Hit her where it hurts!!!

But unfortunately, reason wins out and that's prob not the best thing to do. However, I fully support you printing the info (so you can show your brother PROOF) and then confronting her.

'Oh..so-and-so is trying to pick an online dating site. Do you know any good ones? Ever heard of OKCupid?' ...something like that LOL

I think it's crueler to catch her that way then to play at her game - she could just use it against you.

As for the bridal shower - if you get drunk, oh well.lol. At least you'll get another gift!

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Yes, yes and yes!! To this whole thing!