UGH!!! Y can't people just get along? Im Crying...

june262004 Posted: Apr 26, 2004 11:34 PM

UGH!!! Y can't people just get along? Im Crying...

So my shower was Saturday there was so much Drama and Stress. This one could only pay this and this one could pay this. Everyone was pretty much fighting and at each others throats. I just went to my moms house and I was talking to her and this came out. So I got upset and I said I just have this horrible feeling that my day is gonna be ruined cause everyone is going to be at each others throats. Which honestly I didnt mean because nothing could ruin my wedding day I will be married to the Love of my Life. I guess like Heat of the moment kind of thing. Well I started crying and just walked out of the house. Im sure my mother is still siting there crying and now I feel like Crap. OMG this is so much stress.... I can't take it anymore.

July2004Bride Posted: Apr 26, 2004 11:37 PM

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Try to hang in there... it will be okay for your wedding day!! Please don't be upset.. Why don't you call your mom and just explain to her that you said what you said but didn't mean anything towards her and that you are really stressed. I'm sure she'll understand.

marymoon Posted: Apr 26, 2004 11:38 PM

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It's SO hard. But put it this way. In exactly 2 months, you'll be married to the love of your life and nothing and no one can take that away from you. Whatever happen from now until the wedding will happen. What's important is that you're spending the rest of your life with someone you love. It's so hard. There's o much fighting and peopel forget what it's really about.

Also, just talk to your mom when you've both calmed down. i'm sure she can understand the stress you're wunder and everything will be fine anyway!!!!

TWO MONTHS!!!

nsgraham Posted: Apr 26, 2004 11:49 PM

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Oh sweetie, weddings are so, so stressful! Just remember that you and your FI and your relationship is central here - everything else is secondary.

FrescaBride Posted: Apr 26, 2004 11:53 PM

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Posted by nsgraham

Oh sweetie, weddings are so, so stressful! Just remember that you and your FI and your relationship is central here - everything else is secondary.