ughh

kfizz Posted: Nov 06, 2010 12:37 AM

ughh

FH and I just got into a huge fight...we never fight...im bawling..its 12:30am he went home and I am just beside myself. why is this happening..

Jenn7982 Posted: Nov 06, 2010 12:39 AM

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ughhhh I just had one of those last saturday night! I can't stand it. If we ever leave unhappy with each other, I wait a bit, and then call him when I calm down. We can usually talk it out over the phone then. I would try it... It will be easier to go to sleep too ;) gl

Ray8183 Posted: Nov 06, 2010 12:47 AM

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Posted by Jenn7982

Wait a bit, and then call him when I calm down. We can usually talk it out over the phone then. I would try it... It will be easier to go to sleep too ;) gl

ITA GL

kfizz Posted: Nov 06, 2010 12:51 AM

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I called...it just made it worse..he said we will talk in the morning. Worst part is I don't even really understand why he is mad at me...we were out I had been drinking (by no means drunk but tipsy) we went back to his house and I fell asleep as soon as i hit the bed (i was exhausted)...he got upset..so I told him to drive me home..

Jenn7982 Posted: Nov 06, 2010 01:04 AM

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oh man! i'm sorry! Try and get some rest. You will both feel better in the morning, and i'm sure will put this far behind you.

adelz Posted: Nov 06, 2010 01:51 AM

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Everything will pass by tomorrow - sometimes guys just need some time to recoup from even a smaller fight.

xoabxo Posted: Nov 06, 2010 02:28 AM

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I am sure everything will be fine by morning

fdnybride163 Posted: Nov 06, 2010 07:30 AM

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i firmly believe that men get their periods and i even went so far one time as to toss him a bottle of midol when we were fighting bc he was driving me nuts.

Let it go for a couple hours, sleep on it, and let him take the morning to come to you. I do this w FH because sometimes we just need to walk away and be alone to think and calm down. He always calls me the next day and we talk rationally about it. It will be ok. just dont keep rehashing the whole fight today otherwise its going to go in circles and you will be more upset

allornil Posted: Nov 06, 2010 07:56 AM

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Aww hon im sorry :( couples fight sometimes. Im sure it will all work out. Its the worst feeling going to bed upset.

jettahot Posted: Nov 06, 2010 09:29 AM

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aww im sorry to hear. Men get upset like we do over little things sometimes...
im sure in the am things will be better!
good luck!!
hugs!!!!!

squeeky126 Posted: Nov 06, 2010 06:47 PM

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Oh no I hope everything is okay now...keep us posted!

IrishAli Posted: Nov 06, 2010 06:54 PM

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How did it turn out?

I swear, a little alcohol after a rough day or week can make any rational human being a cranky person. Add another person with a little alcohol, and it seems like every statement ups the ante in the argument. It just gets worse and worse for no reason.

I hope it is all ok now

annabellagirl Posted: Nov 06, 2010 07:23 PM

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... aww i hope things are better today for you ;(

It just HAPPENS sometimes....

everything will be OKAY!!

remember - you guys are at a stressful part in your life right now...