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ughh i HATE my aunt... ( VERY long)

pinkstar025 Posted:

ughh i HATE my aunt... ( VERY long)

so thursday i had my makeup trial and took my grandmother with me.....well my aunt lives in my grandmothers basement with her husbdand and daughter ( they are TRUELY trashy.....i can NOT stand her to begin with!!)
anyway...so my grandmother and I go out shopping before hand and go back to her house to switch to my car so she didnt have to drive so far.....and my aunt was home....but we were late ( i ended uo being almost 40 minutes LATE for my trial) so we just got in the car and ran....then afterwards (after i missed my hair and nail appt no less) i had to but FH new khakis for our e-pics and then take my grandma all the way home and get back to do MY hair and nails myself...well i got home 10 minutes before i had to LEAVE for the pics......i was soo stressed...but i got it all done....

so my grandma calls me last night all upset telling me how my aunt came upstairs yelling and screaming at my grandmother about how rude it was that i just dropped her off and didnt come say hello ( I WAS LATE!!!!) and then went off about i have no respect for her blah blahh blah and her daughter wsa crying b/c she was waiting all day to see me....
BS b/c they didnt even knwo i was there!!!!!!!! AND only found out when they asked my grandfather that afternoon where my grandma was!! well..my cousin prob cared less..we are NOT close and i KNOW she wasnt crying!
then YESTERDAY they go with my grandma to Sers..and my granma found a dress she wanted on sale for my wedding....and then tells my aunt that we arent having kids....yet my aunt THEN buys my cousin a dress.
now she is 11,,,and we have 36 kids in our family...i cannot afford that!! we're paying 100% for this....so last night i called to tell her why and she goes off about that her daughter is my 1st cousin and all the other kids are my 2nd cousin...and she is 11 and looks older in teh dress she bought... and im excluding her completely..umm no im excluding 36 kids...not just her...so she says i shouldnt invite my couins in their 20s and 30s since im not inviting her 11 yr old daughter....i am soooooo sick of her..i have NEVER been as angry as i was last night......no one in my family can stand her..she is psycho....her husband is not allowed to drive,,,she drives him to and from work...goes to his work at lunch and he has to sit in their car and eat it.....NONE of them have EVER got a hair cut....they SMELL soooo bad have..they are so gross...they're lucky i'm even inviting them.....i am just so upset that she takes this all out on my grandmother and grandfather...they are too old to deal with this...its bad enought they come over LITERALLY crying how miserabel they are with her.......you just cant win with her..she ALWAYS needs the last word.

im sorry i had to vent and i am so worried she will go upstairs now and yell at my grandma for telling me what she has been saying...
Mrs. dleeny Posted:

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wow DT! I am so sorry you have an Aunt who's treating you like that

We all have someone in our family (at least 1) that we can live withought.

Anyhow, you should tell her that she had her turn to plan her wedding and now it's your turn. if she doesn't like it, she can skip it.

honestly, I would say that if it were me. I am past the point of giving a sh&t about hurting ppl's feelings.

(Can you tell I've been very aggravated lately?) lol

Good luck
pinkstar025 Posted:

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thanks DT...i swear it tooka ll i had from getting in my car and driving over there...my sis and I were soooo hoping it got so bad that she would say she wasnt going to come to the wedding

since she claims i am being materialistic and have nothing under $100 on ym registry ( which is soooo not true.you can chekc it out on my website) maybe she wont come to the shower.....
DAVALJO2 Posted:

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OMG. Some people are just clueless about what it takes to plan a wedding. I try to ignore people who just don't get it.
SomethingBlu Posted:

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I'm sorry!

It sounds like on top of being everything you said, they're manipulative and abusive of your grandparents. Do they have to live with her? This is a whole family! I'm so sorry! Please stand your ground, they're clearly nuts!
pinkstar025 Posted:

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they live in an apartment in my grandparetns basement..but basically in her house...because they are always up there


ughh she gets me so angry
octobride Posted:

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Oh my goodness--I'm so sorry you're dealing with this!! Every family has a crazy person in it, and that stinks that she's causing you so much grief (not to mention your grandparents--shame on your aunt!--elderly people should be aloud to enjoy life without these kinds of hassles!) Hang in there!! Don't hesitate to FM me if you need to vent!!!
tjs Posted:

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sorry to hear about that!! i had a horrible week with future family i know how you feel
SummerBride2005 Posted:

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I'm so sorry to hear of your frustration. Try not to let your aunt ruin your wedding plans. Stick to your guns...it's very obvious that she's off base. Good luck!
blueyes678 Posted:

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Geeze, Nic... I'm soooo srroy you have to deal with the ignorance and stupidity of others!!! Don't stress over this....she's just not worth it!!!
janelovesharry Posted:

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Sorry to crash your board...but you subject title made me look...I HATE my aunt too!!!! I am sorry that she is acting like this...try not to let it get to you too much...(trust me, I know how hard that can be too ) Just ignore her, because if she's anything like my aunt...and it sounds like she is...she feeds off negative attention. She wants you to say something to her, so she can tell everyone, 'See how bad she talks to us, she's not even inviting our daugther, her cousin!'
People are ridiculous
Good Luck!!!!
pinkstar025 Posted:

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Posted by janelovesharry

Sorry to crash your board...but you subject title made me look...I HATE my aunt too!!!! I am sorry that she is acting like this...try not to let it get to you too much...(trust me, I know how hard that can be too ) Just ignore her, because if she's anything like my aunt...and it sounds like she is...she feeds off negative attention. She wants you to say something to her, so she can tell everyone, 'See how bad she talks to us, she's not even inviting our daugther, her cousin!'
People are ridiculous
Good Luck!!!!



some people are just really too much
janelovesharry Posted:

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Posted by pinkstar025


Posted by janelovesharry

Sorry to crash your board...but you subject title made me look...I HATE my aunt too!!!! I am sorry that she is acting like this...try not to let it get to you too much...(trust me, I know how hard that can be too ) Just ignore her, because if she's anything like my aunt...and it sounds like she is...she feeds off negative attention. She wants you to say something to her, so she can tell everyone, 'See how bad she talks to us, she's not even inviting our daugther, her cousin!'
People are ridiculous
Good Luck!!!!



some people are just really too much



They are!!! They think the world revolves around them... and no matter what you are doing you should accomodate them. Well, there comes a time when you have to just say 'F-that' and do what you want It sounds to me that you are at that point now...I know I am
pinkstar025 Posted:

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glad I'm not alone

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