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Ughhh invites are killing me!!

chicky724 Posted:

Ughhh invites are killing me!!

I’ve tried looking for the “correct” way to do this and have come to the conclusion that there isn’t one, so maybe you girls can help.

OK – on our invitations we’re putting our families names. Really the issue is with my mom – she’s remarried but kept her former married name (my last name). Do I put Mrs. Diane Jones and Mr. Kenneth Smith? Or just put Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Smith even though that’s not really her name?

littlepixie12 Posted:

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oh that is a tough one... Did you ask your mom? What does she prefer?

luckiestelc Posted:

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i would do the former...
chicky724 Posted:

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Posted by littlepixie12

oh that is a tough one... Did you ask your mom? What does she prefer?



She doesn't know either!
littlepixie12 Posted:

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Posted by chicky724


Posted by littlepixie12

oh that is a tough one... Did you ask your mom? What does she prefer?



She doesn't know either!



oh! so hard.. lol... well, you could do her hubby's name unless everyone in the fam/friends know she doesnt go by that last name in which case I would do the former
gina409 Posted:

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do u want me to bump the invitation etiquette thing i have notebooked?that might help?

nicopico13 Posted:

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hmm, not sure. FH's mom got remarried but we aren't putting her new husbands name on the invite. Mostly because FH father past away and I think putting the new husbands name on there is disrespectful to his father. I just put my parents name and her name, but with her new current last name.

chicky724 Posted:

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Posted by gina409

do u want me to bump the invitation etiquette thing i have notebooked?that might help?



Could you? I had a few NBed too but none of them gave me the answer!
gina409 Posted:

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sure bumping now
9509Bride Posted:

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address it :

Mrs. Mom



ok sorry but I thought that was hilarious....let me see If I can find you a real answer lol

P.S what does 'bump' mean?
gina409 Posted:

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Posted by 9509Bride

address it :

Mrs. Mom



ok sorry but I thought that was hilarious....let me see If I can find you a real answer lol

P.S what does 'bump' mean?



bring up my post.....to repost an old thread if someone needs it

but in some cases bump means we break out into the running man
9509Bride Posted:

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This is what I found:


Married couples in which the woman has retained her maiden name or professional name—some experts say the woman's name appears first:

Ms. Elaine Austin Rogers
Mr. Edward Paris Whittemore
Three Greenleaf Lane
Huntington Beach, California
94640

does this help?

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