I’ve tried looking for the “correct” way to do this and have come to the conclusion that there isn’t one, so maybe you girls can help.
OK – on our invitations we’re putting our families names. Really the issue is with my mom – she’s remarried but kept her former married name (my last name). Do I put Mrs. Diane Jones and Mr. Kenneth Smith? Or just put Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Smith even though that’s not really her name?
littlepixie12
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oh that is a tough one... Did you ask your mom? What does she prefer?
luckiestelc
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i would do the former...
chicky724
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Posted by littlepixie12
oh that is a tough one... Did you ask your mom? What does she prefer?
She doesn't know either!
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Posted by littlepixie12
oh that is a tough one... Did you ask your mom? What does she prefer?
She doesn't know either!
oh! so hard.. lol... well, you could do her hubby's name unless everyone in the fam/friends know she doesnt go by that last name in which case I would do the former
gina409
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do u want me to bump the invitation etiquette thing i have notebooked?that might help?
nicopico13
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hmm, not sure. FH's mom got remarried but we aren't putting her new husbands name on the invite. Mostly because FH father past away and I think putting the new husbands name on there is disrespectful to his father. I just put my parents name and her name, but with her new current last name.
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Posted by gina409
do u want me to bump the invitation etiquette thing i have notebooked?that might help?
Could you? I had a few NBed too but none of them gave me the answer!
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sure bumping now
9509Bride
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address it :
Mrs. Mom
ok sorry but I thought that was hilarious....let me see If I can find you a real answer lol
P.S what does 'bump' mean?
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Posted by 9509Bride
address it :
Mrs. Mom
ok sorry but I thought that was hilarious....let me see If I can find you a real answer lol
P.S what does 'bump' mean?
bring up my post.....to repost an old thread if someone needs it
but in some cases bump means we break out into the running man
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This is what I found:
Married couples in which the woman has retained her maiden name or professional name—some experts say the woman's name appears first:
Ms. Elaine Austin Rogers Mr. Edward Paris Whittemore Three Greenleaf Lane Huntington Beach, California 94640