ughhh vent

whats with all these brides and FH breaking up lately and getting into fights where there unsure of whats gonna happen...i hate reading these boards now its so sad ...my heart goes out to all of you and i hope eveyrthing works out for the best i no i could never imagine mylife without my FH ...when we first started dating there was alot of drama and we didnt talk for like 3 days and tahts what i needed to realize that he is def the one i want to be with for the rest of my life so i hope the same goes for all you girls that are going through hard times right now

well said. it's hard to see other ppl not doing well....but i remember having rough times with DH years ago! it's stated over and over again, but i'm a firm believer that things happen for a reason! i was so torn up over my ex-BF before i met DH....and i'm so damn happy i broke up with my ex cause i wouldn't have the wonderful hubby i have today.

it sounds corny, but it reminds me of the Garth Brooks song 'Unanswered Prayers' where he is saying how he thanks god for not answering his prayer, when he broke up with his HS girlfriend...and prayed to god over and over again to be with his GF again...but realizes he didn't know any better cause he wouldn't have the wife he has today.

I hope things work out for all the girls who have had some relationship issues lately...if you work it out, that's great...but for those who might separate permanently....it will get better, i promise!

the same happened with us also ...we broke up twice in the past eight years ...but i know now this is it ....i just hope that no one stays in the relationship just because there is a wedding planned and they dont wanna lose money or look silly to their friends and family....
think about it you do not want to married 6 months and then be getting a divorce ....

everything DOES happen for a reason...and in the end no matter how it turns out ...you will move on and everything will be okay

My heart goes out to these women as well. I really hate to say it but, it's not necessarily a bad thing though. I think it is much better for them to realize now before it's too late. Before they end up divorced (or even worse staying married to someone that does not treat them right or respect them). I've read some of these posts and it really seems like these guys are not respecting them and it should not be tolerated. Yes, we all have our fights but, I believe that if you are fighting a lot (I'm not saying petty arguments... I'm talking serious arguments that make you question your relationship) then they really should reconsider getting married.

Over the past couple days I have read some of these posts and I cannot even believe some of these women would deal with that type of treatment! If they are constantly having to have discussions with their FH's and then 2 weeks later crying about the same thing, it just isn't going to work. You cannot change someone. No matter how hard you try, he is not going to change. I feel bad that some of these women don't see that. Don't get me wrong... I don't think I've found the perfect guy (we all know there is no such thing lol) but, I have found someone that is perfect for me. Staying in a relationship hoping someone will change is just wasting time that they could have spent finding someone that is perfect for them. JMO