UGH..I AM SO SORRY BUT NEED TO VENT ABOUT FH

UGH..I AM SO SORRY BUT NEED TO VENT ABOUT FH

I just moved into his parents home (again---long story) to save money for the wedding. I jsut spent the last 2 and 1/2 hrs cleaning up after mostly him and myself....he seems to think it's ok to leave clothes piled everywhere because he has no dresser or closet space left. It drives me NUTS!! NOw, I do give him slack as he's a retail manager and X-mas season just ended...but it's been like this for the last 2 YEARS!! UGH.....I truly hope things change when we have our own house. It's so hard keeping after us in his parents home as it's not the cleanest to begin with...and my stepmom raised me to be VERY CLEAN....and I can be messy too at times. I just hope he appreciates what I just did.....

Re: UGH..I AM SO SORRY BUT NEED TO VENT ABOUT FH

Here is advice from a newly married woman-

Nip this in the bud NOW!!!

My husband and I did not live together before marriage, boy was I in for an eye opener.

He would be a slob at times. I really had to set him straight. I told him I was not a maid and he had to start pitching in.

Well now he does, but had I just let it go we would STILL be in that predicament.