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JAAMS Posted:

uh oh

Ok, so my shower is supposed to be a surprise. I'm almost positive it's this Sunday @ 2PM @ Lambrous. I've known that for awhile.

I said 'Happy birthday!' to an old family friend (she knew my grandparents foreverrrr!) this morning. She wrote back 'Thank you! See you on Sunday! Thanks again!'

Now, I am not mad. She is such a sweet woman + I already know. HOWEVER, I think when she remembers she is going to feel badly, and I don't want her to! It's an honest mistake.

Normally I would write back 'you're welcome!' However, should I just not say anything, and then on Sunday if she says 'I'm so sorry!' or anything, just say that I haven't been on facebook since Friday since I've been so busy?

I just don't want her to feel badly.
little j Posted:

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dont write back.

allornil Posted:

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yeah dont answer her and act surprised when you see her.

mariedsgn Posted:

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Posted by allornil

yeah dont answer her and act surprised when you see her.



ITA!
Becca2010 Posted:

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Yeah don't write back and maybe say that you didn't read her email so the 'surprise' wasn't 'ruined.'
elisa112101 Posted:

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Posted by mariedsgn


Posted by allornil

yeah dont answer her and act surprised when you see her.



ITA!



yuppers!
SummerBride10 Posted:

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Posted by little j

dont write back.




ITA. She probably doesnt even realize.
ourwedding9510 Posted:

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I wouldn't write back. She might not even notice or remember she said anything. I had an inkling when my shower was and then a cousins gf said 'see you next Saturday' and I kinda made a face, said 'ok' and she walked away. She never apologized or anything.

CarolAnn721 Posted:

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Just play dumb as if you didn't even notice. Don't let her feel bad.

TessMike621 Posted:

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at least you know to look your best on sunday lol...I would definitely pretend I didn't read it or email her back telling her that it was supposed to be a suprise and keep it your little secret that you know

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