Um, THANKS lady

JessicaM. Posted: Jul 26, 2006 04:34 PM

Um, THANKS lady

'psychic secretary' (of course with her eyes closed, having her vision) says to me

PS: DON'T lose any more weight...you will be anorexic (her 'prediction'?? )

Me: Um, I haven't really lost that much, and I actually want to gain back a pound or two

PS: (sucking in her checks) ANOREXIC...you are anorexic...

Me: Is this NOW or in the FUTURE...

I feel self-conscious enough as it is IDIOT! people just say the wrong thing...I wonder, if I had GAINED weight, would she have said...don't GAIN anymore, you will be OBESE

CLMon7906 Posted: Jul 26, 2006 04:35 PM

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meanie head.

i'm sure you look just fine.

JanuaryBride06 Posted: Jul 26, 2006 04:38 PM

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Who are these people who constantly need to critique/comment on whate everyone else looks like? They need to worry about what themselves.

You always look great. But would you like to add that pound back on through the consumption of alcoholic beverages?

Katherine121 Posted: Jul 26, 2006 04:48 PM

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You should have gone into a trance-like state, and said 'don't say another word, you will have the sh!t beat out of you.'

cindyandkevin Posted: Jul 26, 2006 05:18 PM

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I don't know what she's talking about Jess, from the pics I've seen you look great!!!!!!! People really need to start thinking before they open their mouths!!!!!

Goldi1021 Posted: Jul 26, 2006 05:19 PM

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Posted by JessicaM.
I wonder, if I had GAINED weight, would she have said...don't GAIN anymore, you will be OBESE

These people ARE out there. When I had been heavy, a lady at work looked at me and said 'Leslie, you got BIG!' And I am thinking, 'Gee thanks for letting me know because the size 24 pants I am wearing did not provide the information you just so discreetly and politely cued me in on!'

Naunie Posted: Jul 26, 2006 05:27 PM

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Posted by Katherine121

You should have gone into a trance-like state, and said 'don't say another word, you will have the sh!t beat out of you.'

mtdr1106 Posted: Jul 26, 2006 05:56 PM

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DID U SHOW THIS BONEHEAD YOUR HM PICS?????

tell her to put that in her hat!!!

tell her you are too supafly to listen to her BS and to worry about her own waistline!!!

hmpena Posted: Jul 26, 2006 08:33 PM

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Stupid azz!!! Ignore her darling. She is an idiot!

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Jul 27, 2006 08:44 AM

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Judging from your pics, you do NOT look anorexic at all! You are a very healthy and curvy looking woman - totally normal weight!

People are so strange!

Before my wedding, I put a crying post on here because someone told me - 'I thought brides were supposed to be very thin!' When she saw me eating a bagel - mind you - I'm between a size 4 and 6!

SuzBride Posted: Jul 27, 2006 08:52 AM

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Sometimes people will say things like that out of jealousy - and some people are just so freakin rude. FIL has this 'lovely' habit of telling me that I am too skinny and need to eat more. I've been the same weight for 5 years (give or take 5 lbs) and it kind of skeeves me out when he makes comments about my bod ()

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Jul 27, 2006 08:56 AM

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Posted by SuzBride

Sometimes people will say things like that out of jealousy - and some people are just so freakin rude. FIL has this 'lovely' habit of telling me that I am too skinny and need to eat more. I've been the same weight for 5 years (give or take 5 lbs) and it kind of skeeves me out when he makes comments about my bod ()

You also don't have that 'too skinny' look - you look like you are just naturally thin! Like Cheryl - CLmon - she is tiny, but it looks like its her natural body structure!

Why do people focus so much on other people's bodies???

Its weird!

N.Y.bride Posted: Jul 27, 2006 09:00 AM

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I bet shes just jealous!

SuzBride Posted: Jul 27, 2006 09:24 AM

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Posted by lipglossjunky73

Why do people focus so much on other people's bodies???

Its weird!

Seriously! I have never felt the urge to tell anyone:

they are too skinny
they are too fat
they have a pimple
they have a sunburn (i get this all the time - like I didn't know )

JessicaM. Posted: Jul 27, 2006 09:29 AM

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thanks girls.

I DO look rather thin up top now, b/c my bones naturally stick out, even when I am heavier you can still see them...it's my 'elegant' neckline but it's much more pronounced now, and I am a bit self conscious...I am one of those rare birds that LIKES a lil' meat on my bones...

the other day dh's niece grabbed on to my collar bone and was asking me what it was (she's 3) and why she couldn't see hers from kids it's so much cuter....

anyway, this lady is pushing retirement age...I don't think she's jealous, I think she's just an azz

to all the HATERS out there, I have THIS to say to you...

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lipglossjunky73 Posted: Jul 27, 2006 07:40 PM

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Posted by SuzBride

Posted by lipglossjunky73

Why do people focus so much on other people's bodies???

Its weird!

Seriously! I have never felt the urge to tell anyone:

they are too skinny
they are too fat
they have a pimple
they have a sunburn (i get this all the time - like I didn't know )

I was JUST having this conversation with someone - people are like - oooo - you have a sunburn.

Duh.

SuzBride Posted: Jul 28, 2006 08:20 AM

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Posted by lipglossjunky73

I was JUST having this conversation with someone - people are like - oooo - you have a sunburn.

Duh.

it annoys me so much! I got really burnt once and this chick I hardly knew says 'You know you look like a lobster, right?' Thanks chick - like I wasn't feeling uncomfortable already being that I was in incredible burnt pain and bright freakin red!

And before the wedding I had a light burn and this guy says 'is your face just red or do you have a sunburn?'