My FH is actually telling me now (1 year later) things or a thing that bothered him way back when we were only dating..(not serious). I am completely floored!!! Why now?? Why not tell me then? And to top it off ..he's bringing up someone I dated WAY before I even met him. ***??? He has GOT to be kidding me. I don't need this sh** today..or ever!! He's NEVER like this! I can only assume it's the stress of the wedding/work..or whatever. But seriously...you are going to start doubting me NOW..over some a-hole I dated before HIM?? OMG!!!!!!!!
AeroJenn
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Re: unbelievable!! diD ANYONE EXPERIENCE THIS?
Hopefully it will pass. He may be going thru a sort of denial mode right now--afterall....you are getting married and sometimes it takes awhile to sink in. I would try talking to him abotu what he's thinking and feeling--its probably normal wedding jitters but let him know you are there for him and remind him why he's marrying you He's probably just rationalizing in his own head if he's making the right decision--and of course he is and he knows that deep down) but when the word 'forever' fist really hits them they tend to get a little scared.
Mitabtrfly
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Re: unbelievable!! diD ANYONE EXPERIENCE THIS?
Posted by AeroJenn
Hopefully it will pass. He may be going thru a sort of denial mode right now--afterall....you are getting married and sometimes it takes awhile to sink in. I would try talking to him abotu what he's thinking and feeling--its probably normal wedding jitters but let him know you are there for him and remind him why he's marrying you He's probably just rationalizing in his own head if he's making the right decision--and of course he is and he knows that deep down) but when the word 'forever' fist really hits them they tend to get a little scared.
