So we are having 1 MOH, 1 Bridesmaid, 4 Groomsmen & 1 Best Man. I am a little worried about it being so uneven (5 to 2), the issue is that each of us have 2 brothers so there is no way around it. I only want to have my closest of closest of friends... I'm not having the BP dance so that's not an issue. What do you girls think?
Diana508
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I have an uneven one too. It's 6 girls and 4 guys. I didn't want to exclude anyone I felt should be in it. It was more important to me to include the 6 girls I wanted around me all day than to leave 2 out.
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I'm with you and still trying to figure it out. I have 7 BMs and 3 GM. So...we're having the BP introduced first the ladies, then the fellas....
We may have all the guys at the altar as the ladies walk the aisle 2 at a time, my sister by herself. It's just bothering me....
mokie74m
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I have an uneven BP as well. I have 1 MOH and 4 BM's, 1 Best Man and 2 GM. I'm not worried about it at all.
Ivansgirl
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We have an uneven party too. 2 MOH 4 BM 1Best Man and 6 GM. We are going have one of the GM walk with 1 of the MOH. Then 1 BM with 2 GM or have one of the GM walk down with his daughter the flowergirl
JAAMS
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Mines uneven too... there are an equal number of boys & girls total (bc counting the kids..) but as far as people walking down the aisle together, there are 3 more girls. Not a big deal at all!
I'm with you and still trying to figure it out. I have 7 BMs and 3 GM. So...we're having the BP introduced first the ladies, then the fellas....
We may have all the guys at the altar as the ladies walk the aisle 2 at a time, my sister by herself. It's just bothering me....
Can you have two girls walk with one guy? Then, the MOH can walk by herself.
Lsorrent
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I have 7 girls and 5 guys. I'm not worried at all.
LaBellaVita622
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mine is too 1 MOH, 2 Best men, 3 bridesmaids & 4 groomsmen, 1 junior bridesmaid & 2 flower girls..its ok a few doubling up walking down the aisle that's all, it will work :)
MikesBride2B
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Maybe you can have all the guys lined up at the altar at the beginning and only have your girls walk down before you? That's how I'd do it.
xosweetiexo
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We also have an uneven bridal party... 6 girls and 4 men... I wasn't going to leave anyone out just because it was going to be uneven. Who cares what people think.... do what is going to make you happy
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Since you have 2 and 5, you can have the BM walk by himself and then have the MOH walk with 2 GM and the BM walk with 2 GM. I have 2 MOH and I am having them both walk with the 1 BM.
BrideToBe2011
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Thanks girls I was thinking along the same lines
Corinne Ann
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seems like this is pretty common... i also have uneven BP - 1 MOH, 5BM and 1BM, 2 or 3GM
i think its ok... i was planning on having some walk with 2 ...
Riley and Christopher
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I think some traditions are nice, but having an even amount of people in your bridal party is tough to do. I say that as long as you're happy with your decision to include those you asked, then don't think twice about the uneven number!
As for formation, why not have two GMs walk down together and the other two walk down with the BM?
T E R I
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I think its perfectly fine to have an uneven BP, we have 4 girls and 3 guys
Liv123
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I have 1 MOH, 1 bridesmaid, and 3-4 groomsmen. We only wanted the closest of the close, and just about everyone is a family member.
I think you should stick by what you want - because in future years you will be looking at the pictures and these people will still be in your life.
As for walking - let the groomsmen line up. when they come down the non -single ones can meet their other half from the aisle and walk out together.