Fh has family who are so 'unruly' that they are not being invited to the wedding. For whatever reason, they feel that they are already invited because they are family. They are the type of people they would show up even though they are not invited. Is there anything that they RH does to handle a situation like that. Or, would fh and I be responsible to pay for their plate.
dazies1011
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They would really do that? I would ask you Rh what they can do, if there is away around it.
olivia30
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You can ask the matire d if they would be willing to keep watch at the door and only let people in who are on the guest list. Otherwise, ask a friend who you know can handle being at the door. I am having the same issue so we will be having someone at the door. I recently saw an episode of Whose Wedding Is it Anyway where the coordinator filled this role.
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thanks ladies
Ann 52409
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Thats a hard one because i dont know if a RH is going to keep watch of your guest list at the door. maybe you can talk to FH family in advance and tell them that you cannot invite them because it is a really small reception and you dont have the money to pay for a huge reception Hope that helps
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i like the idea of having someone watch the door... like they dont have to sit by the door and keep a running record or anything, but just a few glances over at the entrance just to make sure should suffice. i hope everything works out for you. i'd hate to have my wedding ruined by a bunch of unruly family members.
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Posted by olivia30
You can ask the matire d if they would be willing to keep watch at the door and only let people in who are on the guest list. Otherwise, ask a friend who you know can handle being at the door. I am having the same issue so we will be having someone at the door. I recently saw an episode of Whose Wedding Is it Anyway where the coordinator filled this role.
I saw 2 episodes like that. In one of them, the wedding planner asked the guest to pay up.
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Posted by NYMetsBride
Posted by olivia30
You can ask the matire d if they would be willing to keep watch at the door and only let people in who are on the guest list. Otherwise, ask a friend who you know can handle being at the door. I am having the same issue so we will be having someone at the door. I recently saw an episode of Whose Wedding Is it Anyway where the coordinator filled this role.
I saw 2 episodes like that. In one of them, the wedding planner asked the guest to pay up.
What show was that? Did they comply or leave?
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Posted by NYMetsBride
Posted by olivia30
You can ask the matire d if they would be willing to keep watch at the door and only let people in who are on the guest list. Otherwise, ask a friend who you know can handle being at the door. I am having the same issue so we will be having someone at the door. I recently saw an episode of Whose Wedding Is it Anyway where the coordinator filled this role.
I saw 2 episodes like that. In one of them, the wedding planner asked the guest to pay up.
What show was that? Did they comply or leave?
In the first one I saw, the guest was invited but decided to bring her children (who were not invited) and the planner told her that the guests of honor (bride and groom) did not want that so the guest cooperated and just said hello to the bride and groom. In the second one, the guest also cooperated because he didnt rsvp and he paid the $61.50 the bride and groom were asking for.
olivia30
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Posted by olivia30
You can ask the matire d if they would be willing to keep watch at the door and only let people in who are on the guest list. Otherwise, ask a friend who you know can handle being at the door. I am having the same issue so we will be having someone at the door. I recently saw an episode of Whose Wedding Is it Anyway where the coordinator filled this role.
I saw 2 episodes like that. In one of them, the wedding planner asked the guest to pay up.
What show was that? Did they comply or leave?
In the first one I saw, the guest was invited but decided to bring her children (who were not invited) and the planner told her that the guests of honor (bride and groom) did not want that so the guest cooperated and just said hello to the bride and groom. In the second one, the guest also cooperated because he didnt rsvp and he paid the $61.50 the bride and groom were asking for.
The first one you saw was the show I am referring to.