UGH! Our eparty is this weekend. On Tuesday I went and gave the final payment and did all the place cards which was a pain in the butt between figuring out all the tables. So this morning, FH's cousin texted him saying she's bringing her bf with her. UMMM REALLYY??? Thank you for telling us after the RSVP date, thanks for bringing him uninvited, and thanks for making our party and excuse for the family to meet your boyfriend. No one's met him before. They've been dating for exactly 1 month. He cheated on her after 2 days of dating, they broke up and are now back together. The table she's at doesn't have room for any more people, so now I have to rearrange the damn tables to accommodate this loser! I'm sooooo mad. I love how this is our party, yet we don't control what goes on at it.
Needed to vent! Thanks for listening.
Kuklitsa143
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LIKE HELL YOU DO!!!!!!
I would text her back explaining that you have limited room. YTell her you already pay the hall(whatever you are having it) and there no changing the tables or number of people.
I would a be b*tch but that just me
good luck
CaughtMyFish
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I'm with Michelle here. You can say No.
AlexandMike2012
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Posted by Kuklitsa143
LIKE HELL YOU DO!!!!!!
I would text her back explaining that you have limited room. YTell her you already pay the hall(whatever you are having it) and there no changing the tables or number of people.
I would a be b*tch but that just me
good luck
I would do exactly this! There is NOOOO way I would allow that..I'm praying I don't have to deal with this....I'm giving final headcount for our E-Party this Tuesday
Soon2BeABC
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Yea I have to agree with the other girls. Why should you be so stressed out, this is supposed to be your day NOT hers!!!! Good Luck!
FutureWifey
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Yea..... no.
Don't change a thing! Just text back NO. Hopefully she'll understand that. If you don't put your foot down know, are you prepared for the consequences when it comes to your actual wedding?
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Posted by Kuklitsa143
LIKE HELL YOU DO!!!!!!
I would text her back explaining that you have limited room. YTell her you already pay the hall(whatever you are having it) and there no changing the tables or number of people.
I would a be b*tch but that just me
good luck
I agree.
bride2be2012
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Definitely NOT! I totally agree with the other girls. You do not need to stress yourself out and rearrange YOUR party to accommodate her bf. Have your FH text her back and tell her that her bf wasn't invited and as the RSVP date has passed, you are not allowed to change your numbers.
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FH's BM try to pull that s**t. I was like hell no even though it was at a park and we have plenty of space. My reason was if I'm not inviting them to the wedding then they can't come to my e-party. Tell her no.
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You can absolutely say no!
I am going to freak if we have any uninvited guests.... I may have to make it known that there will be alot of police officers at the event and they will have to handle any uninvited guests! I kid...
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Posted by Kuklitsa143
LIKE HELL YOU DO!!!!!!
I would text her back explaining that you have limited room. YTell her you already pay the hall(whatever you are having it) and there no changing the tables or number of people.
I would a be b*tch but that just me
good luck
YUP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
VCanizalez
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Crashing:
JUST SAY NO
U DONT NEED ANYONE AT UR EPARTY IF U DONT WNT THEM!!!!!!!!
No...
This is YOUR Party.. Yours n ur FH!!!!!
U HAVE CONTROL Take the control
1112bride
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I know girls! You don't know how badly I want to say 'NOOOOOOOOOOO DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT COMING!' The problem is FH's family paid for half of the engagement party, and I can't tell them that their niece's boyfriend isn't welcome, cause they don't have any problem with it. I just printed new place cards because we had to rearrange table numbers and what not. Let me tell you, she better be marrying this guy because after the aggravation she put me through, she better spend her life with him! And then when they have an engagement party or wedding, I will RSVP late and tell them I want to bring an uninvited guest
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Uh Helen... Sorry, this sucks and though I remain calm often... I'd go full out Bridezilla on this one and set an example so nobody else thinks their gonna pull this $hit at your wedding! Who cares who is paying, you and FH should take her out back and put her in her place.
MrsCtoBe5512
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that is SO annoying. sorry you're dealing with this
Kuklitsa143
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Posted by 1112bride
I know girls! You don't know how badly I want to say 'NOOOOOOOOOOO DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT COMING!' The problem is FH's family paid for half of the engagement party, and I can't tell them that their niece's boyfriend isn't welcome, cause they don't have any problem with it. I just printed new place cards because we had to rearrange table numbers and what not. Let me tell you, she better be marrying this guy because after the aggravation she put me through, she better spend her life with him! And then when they have an engagement party or wedding, I will RSVP late and tell them I want to bring an uninvited guest
