As you all know my situation over the job I was 'let go' at..today I uninvited my manager!! I wrote her an e-mail and he clearly stated:
'Effective Immediately, due to the current circumstances I am withdrawing my inviation to you to my wedding'
that was it!!! Friends can't believe I did it!!! I am not gonna have a constant reminder..she was the one that let me go..it could of been handled behind closed doors instead of going to my broker!!! I would love to see the look on her face when she opens it!!!! The other 3 ladies are still coming!!!!!
kimnsteve
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go you!! thats awesome
sweetdoublenn
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Wouldn't of you done the same thing in my position?
kimnsteve
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Wouldn't of you done the same thing in my position?
I wouldnt have been that nice !
kori22ny
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... I don't know if I would have done that. I probably would have assumed he/she will not attend. But you got some ba**
lizzie217
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ahaha good for you..except I hope you arent asking her for a letter of recc!!!!!!!!
sweetdoublenn
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No way.....I wasn't there long enough...and plus I was told I wasn't 'getting it' it's such BS..and using my wedding as an excuse why I wasn't learning!! That's just an excuse...Yeah..I'm so Bad..@ss!!!!!...
Maria31
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Good for you!!! Short, sweet and straight to the point!!
LoriBeth2728
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HECK YEAH I would have!!!!! You go!
ant090608
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Good for you! Altough I am sure you want to see how she will react when she reads it...oh to be a fly on the wall.
sweetdoublenn
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I still have eyes over there...my friend is in the next room I'm sure I am gonna hear about it..Plus the other 3 girls are going to the wedding and they will be talking about it Monday 9/15! My friend said she is gonna broadcast it loudly and put a picture up of me and her on her desk so everytime she comes in she will see it!!!
I hate the fact that I still have to see her, so that's why I made it short and simple and not nasty..I never thought I would ever say this but ......................'I hate her' there I said it!! I just feel like she stabbed me in the back and never cared about me at all!!!
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I am sure that it felt great to do that but I am sure that she probably would not have shown up anyway. I am just nervous about burning bridges. But you must feel good that you stated how you felt
OMG u are the coolest. Good for you. I'm almost in a similar situation. My FH and I met at an After school program and worked there 5 years together. We never had any problems bad reviews or anything. At the end of the school year my boss decided to send my FH to a different school. She waited until the last week of school to tell us. And she said she can't take us work together anymore. Meanwhile we never got to see each other at work, SO i DON'T KNOW WHAT THE PROBLEM WAS!!!!. We were so made I took everyone off my wedding list. I know that's not bad but they went to my E-party a March 07 and I know you are suppose to invite people from the e-party to the wedding but I'm NOT I'm so mad. SORRY FOR THE VENT. I'M PROUD OF YOU.
MrsJ08
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wow thats awesome !!!
sophisticat13
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I love it...!!
klovess14
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That is awesome!!! I wish I could do that to some of my FH family.
sweetdoublenn
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Thanks ladies!!!! I am proud of myself too!!!!! Oh to be a fly on the wall at her office on Monday..lol After work last night I had gone to see my 'second Mother' and even she said it..I didn't do anything wrong she thinks she effed up and put me and my friend in the fire..Rumor has it that after I left of Wednesday she was crying in her office...cause she knew what she was about to do...I am gonna take this free time I have to find another great job and concentrate on my wedding! I have a job interview on Monday night and then 2 more people who want to see me..plus my friend has a friend who is looking for a secretary and he will work with my wedding!!! So anything is possible!!!!
But, I can't wait to get to work on Monday! She evenually will come over to deliver mail..I still have to see her..allot of people tend to think she is gonna want to talk to me privately! So then I can go..'So what do you want? You said everything you needed to say on Thursday..there is no need to discuss it further'!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
