Unique dilema! Advice needed!

myasmom Posted: Jul 03, 2004 10:03 AM

Unique dilema! Advice needed!

At our wedding there was a husband and wife. Well the Wife gave us a card with $$ and it was signed ONLY with her name. The husband later told DH and I that he was going to give us his gift at a later date...he and the MRS do their things separately...they are not in love

So you know what happened right? No gift from him...Now its time to start sending hte TY cards...my mom says to send her the photo thank you and send him the regular TY that we were sending to those who didnt give a gift or a card...what do you think?

chichila15 Posted: Jul 03, 2004 10:10 AM

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Yes. I'd do that same as your mom said. However, he might of forgot to send a gift, and will probably send it after he receives the TY.... I changed my mind. I'd send the photo, too, if you have extras.

bogiedmb41 Posted: Jul 03, 2004 10:13 AM

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maybe he forgot but I agree with your mom, I'd send the TY's without the pictures

LADYLUV69 Posted: Jul 03, 2004 11:56 AM

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I agree with your mom. I'll send him a regular thank you card b/c he did at least attend the wedding.

butterfly20 Posted: Jul 03, 2004 12:19 PM

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i agree.. thank you without the pic

LadyPrincess Posted: Jul 03, 2004 01:19 PM

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Posted by myasmom

At our wedding there was a husband and wife. Well the Wife gave us a card with $$ and it was signed ONLY with her name. The husband later told DH and I that he was going to give us his gift at a later date...he and the MRS do their things separately...they are not in love

So you know what happened right? No gift from him...Now its time to start sending hte TY cards...my mom says to send her the photo thank you and send him the regular TY that we were sending to those who didnt give a gift or a card...what do you think?

Agree with mom

sweetadeline Posted: Jul 03, 2004 01:24 PM

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That is quite an unusual dilemma! I agree with your mom.

suven Posted: Jul 03, 2004 02:08 PM

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I agree with your mom

nicknmb Posted: Jul 03, 2004 02:09 PM

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I guess that makes sense. But it is only a picture, right? Do you have enough to send him one?

AtticaQT Posted: Jul 03, 2004 02:32 PM

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if they live together - then i would just end one card addressed to both of them - it just sounds odd sending two cards to teh same address one with a pic and one without - whether they do things separately or not- that will make him feel really odd-

janwinterbridejoy Posted: Jul 03, 2004 02:35 PM

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even though they live in the same house iw out send out two since they made sure you knew that the gifts were seperate but i would same the same card to both just thank her for her generous gift and him for attending

myasmom Posted: Jul 03, 2004 04:52 PM

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Janwinterbridejoy..that sounds like a plan actually.

I am ordering 75 TYs for 130 guests that were mostly couples. I will send one for her generous gift and one for him attending