unity candle??

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted: Mar 18, 2008 05:56 PM

unity candle??

do i need one? im getting married in a church, is this part of the ceremony??

Luvbsb4eva Posted: Mar 18, 2008 05:57 PM

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We're using it in our ceremony date twin, we're having a full mass though... I don't know if that makes a difference?

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted: Mar 18, 2008 05:58 PM

Re: unity candle??

Posted by Luvbsb4eva

We're using it in our ceremony date twin, we're having a full mass though... I don't know if that makes a difference?

hmm i have no idea lol

cmjd Posted: Mar 18, 2008 06:27 PM

Re: unity candle??

Posted by ILOVEBRIAN2008

do i need one? im getting married in a church, is this part of the ceremony??

I think so. I am having just a ceremony at my church and i think its part of it.

angl2001 Posted: Mar 18, 2008 06:28 PM

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i have seen it at every wedding i have been to church or no church full mass or short ceremony

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted: Mar 18, 2008 06:31 PM

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alright i guess i have to go buy one then lol

Shelly9697 Posted: Mar 18, 2008 06:44 PM

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I've always seen it too!! Not sure if you HAVE to do it tho.

Luvbsb4eva Posted: Mar 18, 2008 06:48 PM

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Posted by Shelly9697

I've always seen it too!! Not sure if you HAVE to do it tho.

Yeah that's a good point, I remember the priest who's marrying us asking us if we were doing that... so you probably don't have to do it if you don't want to.

Shelly9697 Posted: Mar 18, 2008 06:53 PM

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Posted by Luvbsb4eva

Posted by Shelly9697

I've always seen it too!! Not sure if you HAVE to do it tho.

Yeah that's a good point, I remember the priest who's marrying us asking us if we were doing that... so you probably don't have to do it if you don't want to.

I would call the church/priest and find out.

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Mar 18, 2008 07:19 PM

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Posted by ILOVEBRIAN2008

alright i guess i have to go buy one then lol

oh well Jenise, start looking for job # 3..lol

my sister did it as part of the church ceremony, but im pretty sure they had these huge ones at the curch

kristin597 Posted: Mar 18, 2008 08:09 PM

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I don't think you have to have one. When I asked my deacon about doing a memorial candle he had asked me if I wanted to do it along with the memorial candle or instead of it. I think its just a matter of preference.