***UP-F'ING DATE**I AM SO PISSED OFF NOW AND WHAT DO I DO...UPDATE FROM FIL'S AND THEIR NONSENSE

***UP-F'ING DATE**I AM SO PISSED OFF NOW AND WHAT DO I DO...UPDATE FROM FIL'S AND THEIR NONSENSE

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OKAY READ THIS MESS..........I CALLED MY FSIL AT WORK TODAY JUST TO ASK HER IF SHE WILL HAVE HER MONEY TO GET THE DRESS THIS WEEKEND AND SHE SAID YEAH BUT NOT IN HER USUAL TONE.....THEN I SAID TO HER WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU? YOU SOUND FUNNY....SHE SAID 'NOTHING, I SAID YEAH THATS ALL.....THEN I JUST HAD TO SAY...'OH I MISSED YOU GUYS THIS WEEKEND' SHE SAID OH I WENT TO MARYLAND AND THAT WAS ALREADY PRE PLANNED.....LIAR LIAR LIAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HER OTHER SISTER TOLD FH THAT SHE WAS WORKING AND FH TOLD ME THAT HIS MAMA TOLD HIM THE SAME THING....WHAT THE F#$$ IS GOING ON HERE.....A CIRCLE OF LIES.....SO I HUNG UP FROM HER.....OKAY I DONT WANT THIS TYPE OF **** AROUND ME FOR THE DAY....I DONT WANT A PUSS FACE IN MY PICS....HECK NO......SO WHAT DO I DO!!!! I AM SO MADE THAT I COULD HER UP SIDE THE HEAD

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i can understand how frustrating this is... i have FIL issues to (don't we all lol...) the best advice i got from the ladies on here is that you should just let it go, do your part to plan your gorgeous wedding, because eveyone will remember what a gracious and calm bride you were - and your FIL's true colors will shine through. if FH wants to address these issues with his family, let him, but stay out of it! trust me, it's much easier that way!!

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she is biotch anyway, for answering you like that , she has no respect for you . period!!!

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That would TICK ME OFF!!!! I can't believe that she would answer you like that!! Are you sure you want her in your bridal party? You do not need that kind of stress. I would confront her and ask her what is wrong with her and if she even still wants to be a part of your wedding. It would be her loss not yours!!! Good luck!!

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If it was me, I would ask her to step down from her BM position..........

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I know how you feel. I was so aggravated with my in laws before the wedding for various reasons. BUT... I PROMISE YOU... the day of the wedding none of this sh*t will matter. Let it go and chalk it up to ignorance.

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I have so many FSIL issues and my initial reaction is always to call her and get into it with her, but I have let it go and let FH deal with it.

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OMG.... I'm sorry you're going through with this. Is it possible you and FH talk about this because this person, obviously is not happy for the two of you. ffffffffffffffffck her and the rest of her sisters! Y don't you tell FH that you really want to include family in your BP but if they're not going to have the positive outlook or be happy for you, then they can all bug off. I'm sorry if I insulted your family, and maybe I shouldn't have typed that, but that's how I feel when it comes to my ILs....some are welcoming and cooperative, others could give a rat's ***...so you know what, bump all of them! It's you and FH's day and you want to be happy not stressed and have bitter and nasty ppl around you! Do what makes you happy girl!!!!!

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I agree to let it go it makes it worse when you hold all this frustration while planning cuz then its so not fun. I had and still have soooooo many issues the FIL's and the FBIL and his biotch!!!! Since I have let it all go I am back to enjoying the planning which should be a happy moment in our live but as we all know the devil in people come out and they show us hoe evil they can really be LOL!!

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I think you should just let it go. You have a long life ahead of you with his family. I know you may be p*ssed off right now (which you should be) but in the long run dropping it will probably save you a lot of grief. IMO