UPDATE: FFIL, starting to feel better, thanks!

Many thanks to the ladies who told me to write FFIL a letter and keep it for myself with regard to his outrageous behavior and insenstivity this past weekend. I'm still not over it, but it helped to get the words out on paper, without causing more tension with FH's family. So thank you!

But on another note, I'm not sure I'm ready to see him quite yet. Do you think it's alright to skip a few dinners with FH's parents? (the four of us go out to dinner from time to time) And if I do skip dinner, what is my excuse? I don't want to look like a baby....

I did the same thing to FBIL last week...i'm still not totally over it...but i'm definitely better than I would've been...i can almost not want to spit when I see him or his name is mentioned. and it's only been a week!

it's very therapeutic sometimes to write it all out. good for you.