after advice from all of you, my own feelings and advice of family and friends I am not going to have my hair done by my cousin for the wedding....
i just tried calling her salon to tell her and she is home... i thought calling the salon would be better cause she would not be able to yell...now i have to call her at home... I AM SHAKING
UPDATE: i wimped out... i am still going for my trial with her saturday that we rescheduled after the cancellation a couple of weeks ago. she was so sweet and accomidating.
AwaitingAugust
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aww, don't worry ... you're making the right decision!
good luck with that phone call!
StaceyWill
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Awwwww!!! It's gonna be difficult, but just think-in a few minutes it's gonna be all over. Just be strong
kris_gets_hitched
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Stay strong. If she starts yelling, just tell her that yelling isn't going to make the situation any better, and that you're not looking for a fight.
If she gets wicked, just tell her you can't deal with her bad vibes and hang up.
joctorre
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Good luck. I think you're making the right decision. She'll just prove that if she starts yelling.....
Let us know how it goes!
cleokizzy
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dont worry! it's all for the better for your wedding!
SummerBride10
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Stay strong....you have to do whats best for YOU!
MrsC2010
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goood luck!
Spring143
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good luck! she honestly should have made the time to have done your trial. you want to feel comfy with what your doing on your day. sorry you had to do this good luck !!
cateydee
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its better to panic now than the day of your wedding when your hair looks busted GL
soontobecruz
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Aww it'll be alright hun... think of it as ripping off a band-aid do it quick! No need to chit chat or get into thing just tell her you've made up your mind.
GL
FutureCap
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bump.... update in OP
MrsSx2
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I hope it works out! Just be honest with her that you had some concerns about her actually showing up with you expect her on your big day! Maybe then some of it will sink in for her!
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JMO I would not have her do a trial if you are going to cancell with her. I think that would be kinda insulting where telling her up front would be less.
Either way, I am sorry your in this situation - It's def a toughie!
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