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Update on ex situation-you're not going to believe this!!

dgirl0114 Posted:

Update on ex situation-you're not going to believe this!!

Hi, guys,

Ok, are you ready for this one? He just called my job to tell me that since he couldn't meet up with me, he was going to tell me over the phone. He wanted to ask if 'so&so' was in wedding? I said Yes. He said 'Well, that's pretty messed up since we slept together for a year.' And, ladies I know he was trying to upset me by telling me this but he just confirmed something I was suspicious of for many years. And to think he's been going around being po'd at me & FH, thinking we were having an affair behind his back when we did not start a relationship until after ex was out of picture. Meanwhile, he's the one who actually had the affair!! He's got a lot of nerve, let me tell you. And now you not only confirmed my suspicions but made yourself look like a bigger $%^^$##.

So even though I still don't trust him, I am almost completely convinced that we won't have to worry about any violence on our wedding day.

I swear my life would make a fantastic movie one day.
Once again, thank you all for so much support with this situation.
JessMxPx88 Posted:

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I know it's none of my business...but why did you invite your ex-husband to your wedding anyway?

bonitachyc Posted:

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wow!! so glad you got it over on the phone...ugh what a creep!
DeannaNDave07 Posted:

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omg...that is soo messed up.... he is trying to ruin your day, and you just have to stay strong, and all the crap that he is tellling you,, try to ignore!! easier said than done...but sweety ,please try and forget it!! you have so much to worry about..you dont need to deal with that garbage

MJDoc12 Posted:

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Posted by JessMxPx88

I know it's none of my business...but why did you invite your ex-husband to your wedding anyway?



her ex isn't invited to the wedding---he was calling to make her upset saying that someone else who IS going to the wedding--he had an affair with



your ex is a real douche! don't let him get to u
bluegreen08 Posted:

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dgirl0114 Posted:

Re: Update on ex situation-you're not going to believe this!!

Oh, believe me, I'm not upset by this. Obviously, me & my friend will need to have a talk but that's another story. Not mad at her; just wish I had found out for sure sooner. Would have saved me some money, that's for sure. And I could have kicked him out on his sorry a$$ instead of paying for him to get an apartment. Oh, well.

I just feel so relieved because he really is an idiot and a loser and all he did was solidify that for me and make me all the more happy that I am marrying FH.
DeannaNDave07 Posted:

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Posted by dgirl0114

Oh, believe me, I'm not upset by this. Obviously, me & my friend will need to have a talk but that's another story. Not mad at her; just wish I had found out for sure sooner. Would have saved me some money, that's for sure. And I could have kicked him out on his sorry a$$ instead of paying for him to get an apartment. Oh, well.

I just feel so relieved because he really is an idiot and a loser and all he did was solidify that for me and make me all the more happy that I am marrying FH.



well im glad to hear that you are ok!! he is such a creep for treating you this way.. i hope you can work things out with your friend...good luck!!
dgirl0114 Posted:

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Thanks, Deanna!!

Brian and Marie Posted:

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What anASSHOLE!!!!

dgirl0114 Posted:

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Couldn't have said it better myself!!

PegaLega Posted:

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WOW thats what that was all about what a dickk! Ignore him, ***** that you didnt know earlier but there isnt much you can do now....you have a very good mind set about it!
twinkle164 Posted:

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I hate this guy. Forget about him. Never waste another minute thinking about him. Have a great wedding. Don't let him bother you. That's what he wants.

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