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Update on me/'date' OPINION Q ADDEDD

MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

Update on me/'date' OPINION Q ADDEDD

deleted for privacy issues lol

don424 Posted:

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so glad to hear this - i'll be the first one with an opinion LOL

btrflygrl Posted:

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Alright Michi!!! What a great 'date' weekend!!! Those are the best...in the beginning, staying up all night talking about everything and anything!

I am SO glad it turned out alright! I can't wait for your pics and to hear more...I think Im drooling!
brideinapril Posted:

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So glad you had a nice weekend with your'date'. And we are always open with our opinions, as you know!!!
btrflygrl Posted:

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Hmmm....if they are small and not too expensive, then yes, get them and surprise him with them. He seems the sentimental type and would appreciate them. Although, in MY OPINION....it might be a little early for a gift. Maybe buy them, hold on to them....but give him a card in the meantime with frogs.....

It's really up to you.
don424 Posted:

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1. i agree, it may slightly be too early for a gift, but you were on the date so you can decide

2. you say the frogs are mocking the buddah. If he's really into his religion, you have to be careful how this may be preceived. He may think that you are making light of his beliefs. From not seeing the bookends, I can't make a solid judgement, just going by your description.
myasmom Posted:

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Aww thats ounds magical lady.

As for the gift. I think that you should proceed with caution. becareful even with the card buying. Perhaps you could find something frog like that is inexpensive yet dare I say the word 'cute' buy 2. One for you and one for him, dont even wrap it like a gift just in a nice brown bag with handles like it just came form the store and say something matter of fact like..I saw these and remembered the frogs in the pond and had to have it so I just bought two. Its no pressure gift giving..
nov04LIbride Posted:

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Posted by btrflygrl

Hmmm....if they are small and not too expensive, then yes, get them and surprise him with them. He seems the sentimental type and would appreciate them. Although, in MY OPINION....it might be a little early for a gift. Maybe buy them, hold on to them....but give him a card in the meantime with frogs.....

It's really up to you.


So glad you had fun! I agree though--maybe too early for gifts. Don't want to scare him off--even the sweeties are still men!
MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

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awesome advice every1! thank you, i def. felt that the fact that its early would b too much as well, i was just curious what ya'll would think...he doesnt let me pay for anything when he takes me out, so i wanted to get him a little something and if i do decide to get it for him, i would def. just put it in a cute brown bag and just say oh when i saw these i thought of u..something to that affect...

oh and btw when i said mocking the buddha i just kinda ment like sitting the same way a budha does, i didnt mean making fun of, just to clarify lol:)
nov04LIbride Posted:

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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

awesome advice every1! thank you, i def. felt that the fact that its early would b too much as well, i was just curious what ya'll would think...he doesnt let me pay for anything when he takes me out, so i wanted to get him a little something and if i do decide to get it for him, i would def. just put it in a cute brown bag and just say oh when i saw these i thought of u..something to that affect...

oh and btw when i said mocking the buddha i just kinda ment like sitting the same way a budha does, i didnt mean making fun of, just to clarify lol:)


I don't know...I think I would offer to make him a nice dinner at your place or his to say thank you for the dinners he paid for. Maybe a nice candlelit dinner--I know my FH LOVES filet mignon so I (we) always make that for our special dinners
OctGroom Posted:

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EGGS-CELLENT DATE! Very happy to hear it!

But do NOT buy him a gift.

Seriously.. it will spell either desperate or stalker to him. Let him come to you.

be aloof.. yet accessible..
does that make sense??? haha

glad to hear it was all good!



OG
boosh78201 Posted:

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I agree, its too early for a gift. Just out of curiosity, but did he say anything to you as far as your relationship?

MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

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we havent brought it up really..like im under the impression he isnt seeing any1 else, but i dont really wanna mention it yet...i dont wanna rush into anything and scare him off by making a 'title' for what we r..i do know he told his best friend and sister about me...

'i think we r still under um..'dating' lol...
its only been 2 weeks! i aint rushing it

as for the gift..i def. agree with all of u that it is wayyyyy to soon.. thanks all:)
dm24angel Posted:

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I love the idea but I would wait a little longer, say if the next two weeks go the same way ( spend the same amount of time together) then I would surprise him..It's too soon...BUT a very good idea and the 'mocking' things is no big deal, he would likly love it!

FeliciaDA Posted:

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Michi!!! I am THRILLED to hear about your awesome weekend with your 'date'

LOL .. its so cute the way you call him your 'Date' ...

I can put myself in your shoes and can remember those incredible first weekends with my DH and how we'd just have amazing nights sitting up talking all night and really 'connecting' Its such a great feeling , aint' it? YES you do seem SMITTEN, but you also seem reasonble and levelheaded about it.. I'm proud of ya!!

You seem to have gotten great advice from the folks here , and I have to agree - as tempting as it is to want to get your 'DATE' something cute in the ways of a gift, you are better for not just holding off for awhile until your relationship becomes more defined.

I know you mean well and do not wish to put any pressure on him, but guys can get the wrong idea and you don't want to freak him out

Many to you !! I am SOOOO very happy that things are progressing nicely and that you are getting treated so well ... you deserve it!!
MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

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Thanks Felicia!!! I def. agree with you all..thats y b4 i do anything i run it across my SOUNDING BOARD--u guys!! LOL..so far things r going nicely, but i guess we shall see what happens:) either way its a nice memory of a really great weekend

btw..i dont know why i still say 'date' lol...dont wanna use his name in fear of jinxing anything LOL!! im so weird
2003fallwedding Posted:

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Glad to hear you had a great weekend with your 'date'!!! I think its ok to keep calling him your 'date'...its like on Sex in the City, where Carried always called him Mr. Big...we never knew his real name until the end of the series.

MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

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that such an awesome point!!!! Mr Big..LOL...now u guys will never find out his name LOL
Maribelle7777 Posted:

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While I think the gift is a great idea, I wouldn't right now in the 'getting to know you' stage - he might be thrown off by you giving him something.

Is his birthday soon? If it is maybe you can give it to him then. Or maybe in a few more weeks once you and he have been out a few more times.

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