omg.. why would she assume she is invited? just explain to you boss you are working with a tight guest list and that you sorry.
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Oh my god-How RUDE! Why would she assume she is invited w/o an invitation!! I am sorry you are being put in this situation-just be honest and explain the situation! GOOD LUCK!
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Maybe she just wants to come to the ceremony....
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oh no....
Are there any no's yet? Can you invite them in place of a no? I'm so sorry you have to deal with this nonsense!
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I am having the same problem at my job - But perhaps she is just thinking the ceremony. I am inviting many of my co-workers to ONLY the ceremony and not the reception. They should understand
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Maybe she just wants to come to the ceremony....
thats what i was thinking!
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So sorry, I hope your boss understands.
Cpt2007
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wow... I am so sorry! good luck talking to your boss!
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OMG people are unbelievable!
FH is getting guilt from someone at work- his job is relatively new, so most of the people he's inviting are from his old job- we've run out of room to invite people from his new job. But we feel soooo bad about this! If you invite one, you gotta invite them all!
Good luck!
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oh no....
Are there any no's yet? Can you invite them in place of a no? I'm so sorry you have to deal with this nonsense!
This was what I would suggest also!
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Maybe they are just coming to the ceremony...send them an invitation to the ceremony...but not adding the reception cards..is that ok to do??
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Maybe they are just coming to the ceremony...send them an invitation to the ceremony...but not adding the reception cards..is that ok to do??
I wish....bu our Reception is immediately following the ceremony....could you imagine kicking them out as everyone is walking towards cocktail hour Thanks for the help.
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I don't want to sound mean but honey how can you invite someone who is married and expect their spouse NOT to come!!!!!!!!!!!! I am sure your guestlist is tight but seriously, this is your bosses wife!!!!!!!!!! I think you'll be making a HUGE mistake telling him not to bring her!! I would be livid and I would not come to the weding if I was him! How would you feel if YOUR husband was invited to a wedding wothout YOU!!!!!!! Hey you do whatever you want but I think you're making a big mistake here....Just my opinion... XOXOXO Kitty
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I dont think her boss was invited...??
luvabul
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yeah! what is wrong with people
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I don't want to sound mean but honey how can you invite someone who is married and expect their spouse NOT to come!!!!!!!!!!!! I am sure your guestlist is tight but seriously, this is your bosses wife!!!!!!!!!! I think you'll be making a HUGE mistake telling him not to bring her!! I would be livid and I would not come to the weding if I was him! How would you feel if YOUR husband was invited to a wedding wothout YOU!!!!!!! Hey you do whatever you want but I think you're making a big mistake here....Just my opinion... XOXOXO Kitty
She was never inviting her boss.......that's why she doen't know why the wife thinks she is invited.
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I think you can just be honest with your boss. He can set his wife straight.