urgggg my sister is a pain in the ARCE!

She really ****es me off.. So i am trying to make plans for my mom on mothers day and she has to wait to find out what her BOYFRIENDS family is doing!!! they are NOT living together and yet EVERY friggin holiday me and my parents have to SIT AROUND and wait for her to decide what shes doing.. and actually its not her, she has to find out what HES doing before she can make ANY DECISIONS!! MY GOD GIRL GET SOME INDEPENDANCE!!! JEES!! it really ****es me off... THANK GOD its not me,. i would never last in that kind of a relationship...the ONE SIDED kind!! urggg.. Sorry had to vent!

vent away
that is what we are here for

THANKS HEATHER!!

I sent her an email saying, why cant you ever make the desicion where you spend the holiday, (its not like they are even engaged or close to it after 5 YEARS) and she wrote me back WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT!!! like im crazy for expecting her to make the desicion with out him.. i wont even go into how i feel about him, but lets just say hes not my favorite person...

I would make our plans and then see can see if they fit in with her plans. If not, then she can either a) change her plans or b) see mom another time.

Tell her 'We made dinner plans for 3pm at XX. Can you join us or not. I have reservations'. That's it. Don't even think twice about it.

Don't let the majority suffer for one person. His family is not putting their plans on hold for her.

Suzanne love is blind

Latina,
I would TOTALY just make the plans with out her, but no matter how much she treats my parents like sloppy seconds, they just wont do nothing with out her..

Thanks girls!! she just really aggravates me!!! urgg.

michelle i just might do that!!

Shamma, in her case it must be DUMB and DEAF too!!

there is NO talking to her about this.. he has done pretty much everything bad to her and she has never said or done anything.. she begs for him back when they break up, its pretty pathetic!

He said he would buy her diamond earings one christmas a couple of years ago and bragged to everyone then never came through then did the same thing with a bracelet, never came through.. its unreal, he HAS to go out with his friends EVERY friday night, saturdays are spent fixing up his friends house and sundays are game days.. i dont even know if they ever see eachother..

The kicker is he is CONSTANTLY on Vacations WITH OUT HER, she never gets invited, the last one was supposed to be a golf weekend, and somehow on the way from her house to the airport he changed his mind and went to VEGAS to a BACHELOR party!!! I would be like you are kidding right? she thought nothing of this like it was no biggie!!!

The clincher was one time she tells me she wants fake breats cause he wants them, then another day she says nah he went to the strip club and felt fake ones and he doesnt like it so im not getting them!! W T F ??????????????

Suzanne, I feel your anger, unless she feels as if she is being treated badly or being short changed nothing will change I guess like they say you cannot want more for others than they want for themselves. I feel bad for her. How old is she???

Shes 26 and hes like 332 still living at home!!

I dont really care at this point what she does with him, she gets so ****ed off and defensive if you try to nicely talk to her, but i HATE HATE HATE that he has anything to do with my family, let alone runs the plans!! URGGG god i hate this jerk!

I don't like you like this, so I will share this quote with you.

Any person capable of angering you becomes your master; he can anger you only when you permit yourself to be disturbed by him.

-- Epictetus

Love you girl, find some cutie to introduce your sister to and you will be the victor

I say make your plans with your mom and the rest of the family, and if she can make it...great. If not, she's gonna look like the a$$.
I wouldn't hold up your plans for her

Suzanne hugs to you for making your mommy priority on mothers day !

Shamma, thanks for the inspiration thats why you are inspired!

THank you ladies!!

Suzanne