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Using 2 officiats?!

Darcy Posted:

Using 2 officiats?!

We are thinking of using both Kevin's pastor on LI and our pastor at the church we go to upstate for the wedding. I don't know his pastor on LI well but he baptized him and it would mean alot to him. But the pastor upstate (which is where I always am) has watched Kevin and my relationship grow, and I got baptized in this church.
Anythoughts or suggestions? Has this been a problem for anyone?
Summer Bride Posted:

Re: Using 2 officiats?!

My fiance and I have a similar problem. He's Jewish and I'm Lutheran. We decided to get married in my church but the ceremony will be done by my pastor as well as a rabbi. This way its fair to both of us.

sandj100304 Posted:

Re: Using 2 officiats?!

We are having the Msgr from FH's church and a rabbi perform our ceremony together at the catering hall. So far, no problems.

BdmageePA Posted:

Re: Using 2 officiats?!

We are getting married in my church and we are using two officiants - my pastor and my friend from college who was ordained two years ago. Everything has worked out really well. Both pastors have been wonderful and left it up to us to decide who will do which part of the ceremony.

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