UUUUG FH is making me very angry!!!! Anyone else feel this way???

UUUUG FH is making me very angry!!!! Anyone else feel this way???

To make a long story short:
I am finally the one who is off and he who is working. I am a teacher and he was laid off for the last few months. Now, I am on vacation, and he is working 6 days a week. But anyway, I have been doing so much for this wedding (IN 2 WEEKS)
I bought all of his groomsmen gifts. And instead of saying they are nice and thank you, he complains about the initials. He wanted First Middle Last name instead of First Last Middle. Never even said thank you for helping him out!!! BTW, he knew all about the gifts before I bought them. I showed him pictures and everything.
Here is a pic anyway:

They are the ones with the beer in them.
Then, I am trying to pick the music for the wedding. He was like 'I don't care' and fell asleep
Then today my mom and I were doing the final count and tables. He was there for a little bit, got annoyed and left, but not before saying a few hurtful things. I won't go into detail.
I am so MAD right now!! He did say sorry and called my mom and appologized, BUT I AM STILL HURT!! UUUGGGGG, why do I even bother!!!
Thanks for the vent ladies

Re: UUUUG FH is making me very angry!!!! Anyone else feel this way???

Sorry you had to deal with that, I know the wedding planning is so stressful. Hang in there.

Re: UUUUG FH is making me very angry!!!! Anyone else feel this way???

He is probabaly stressed as well. I'm sorry. You need a

Re: UUUUG FH is making me very angry!!!! Anyone else feel this way???

he is most likely very stressed ebtween the wedding coeming up soon and working so many hours, especially if he had been laid off for a while previously.......we will all have our moments. i totally agree with YOU getting stressed over it and needing to vent.....but it will all be fine in a few weeks

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if it helps-- you did the monogramming correctly.. even if he doesn't like it, it's nice to be right!

Re: UUUUG FH is making me very angry!!!! Anyone else feel this way???

Re: UUUUG FH is making me very angry!!!! Anyone else feel this way???

Hang in there. I'm unemployed right now and FH is working. Last year he was unemployed for the whole year - I never said anything. Now he's unappreciative for anything I do - thinking it doesn't involve work. I think when someone is off from work and the other is working there is underneath some feeling of jealousy, like darn I wish I was home. Thats my two cents for what its worth.

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It will all work out in the end. If it amkes you feel any better, It seems my FH and I are fighting ridiculously. I think we're letting the stress get to us. Just tell him how he is making you feel, and i am sure he will realize the added pressure is causing the friction.

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how dare him

lol only kidding!

he apologized at least...............

just kiss and make up

Re: UUUUG FH is making me very angry!!!! Anyone else feel this way???

I'm sure he is stressed but you have to understand most men (this is going to sound really mean)....but....they don't really care about wedding stuff. They feel their job is to just show up the day of. To women it's like this is the day we have been dreaming of since were little girls....guys could care less about every little detail. Yes, our FH's love us dearly and I'm sure can't wait for the moment we are walking down the aisle BUT when it comes to the planning part of it they just don't really care and than there are some men out there that LOVE and don't mind helping there FW's plan their wedding because they may think it's fun (I wish my FH was one of those!)...LOL

I know how you feel it is VERY frustrating because it is there wedding too even though they say it's 'your day' but to them it's no big deal.

Don't let it stress you (although it may be hard not to at times) but you just can't because your going to make yourself crazy. To make you feel better, your not the only bride going through it

Good luck....and when your day is here you can tap yourself on the back and say, 'I did all this' and I'm sure it's going to be beautiful!!

Re: UUUUG FH is making me very angry!!!! Anyone else feel this way???

i know my Fh has said to me that he dose not care about all this planning stuff he said what matters is us being married tell me what to wear and what time that is all he cares about...i think alot of men feel this way!--you are not alone trust me!!!

Re: UUUUG FH is making me very angry!!!! Anyone else feel this way???

Re: UUUUG FH is making me very angry!!!! Anyone else feel this way???

Smack him!

Re: UUUUG FH is making me very angry!!!! Anyone else feel this way???

I cant stand FH right now!! Im at the point of choking him to death! He's had a 4 day weekend and everyday I ask him to call limos.... AND HE'S DONE NOTHING. Some men are like friggen 3rd graders! You gotta give them homework and follow up to see if they did it. Arrrrrrrrrrgh!

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I cant stand FH right now!! Im at the point of choking him to death! He's had a 4 day weekend and everyday I ask him to call limos.... AND HE'S DONE NOTHING. Some men are like friggen 3rd graders! You gotta give them homework and follow up to see if they did it. Arrrrrrrrrrgh!

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OMG, do I hear you!!!! LAST WEEK, I gave FH a deadline. I said, 'The invitations will be going out on Monday. On Monday, you have to give me all the addresses of your friends.' It is now the next Monday at 11:35 PM and he just handed me the list. Sometimes I just can't believe that I am planning an entire wedding from out of state and all I ask is for a couple of measly addresses and it takes a week!!!! AHHHHHHH!

I love him dearly, though.

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Are things better now?

Re: UUUUG FH is making me very angry!!!! Anyone else feel this way???

OH I am jealous of you girls, FH has something to say about everything!!!! and most of the time it's no, I don't like that..urgh! Planning a wedding is very stressful for both the bride and groom and I agree with the girls, guys just don't seem to get it. I'm sorry he's been a Mr. Cranky pants, hopefully things will get better soon.

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Trust me, my DH was horrible during that time- he kept saying I can't wait for this to be over even though I did EVERYTHING! even up until the night before I wanted to kill him- he forgot to thank me in his speech at the rehersal dinner or mention me at all, and then went out with my Brother and got drunk the night before!- BUT he was a doll at the wedding- he cried more than I did and at one point said- he thought it would be not as fun as it was but that he was hoping the night could last forever. Guys are weird about weddings- they freak out or something. We ended up having the greatest wedding day. Just keep it up- I know its really hard and you are tired of it all. Been there, honey and it sucked but it WILL be worth it when everyone tells you how wonderful the wedding was. Just so you know, he was also more upset that it was over and went through withdrawl more than me!!!I promise it will all be worth it!