do i need to send invites to any of my vendors - like the officients? whats the ettiquette there? we are still finalizing our officients and the invites may go out before thats done. is there anyone else besides officients that i should be sending formal invites to? TIA
MJDoc12
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i don't think so. i didn't send any invites to any vendors, including the officiant.
i figured they knew what day the wedding was.
magbride
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I wouldn't either...anyone who's paid to be there won't be getting an invitation.
SusiBtoM
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nope. The vendors are not being invited. They are contracted to attend.
amytee
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glad this question was asked cause i was wondering if i should send my officiant one as well. guess i won't.
FlowerBride
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i dont want to unless its customary. so im glad i posted this! did anyone send any vendors formal invites? if so, why?
MissAngel
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We're inviting our priest & his wife to our reception, so they'll be getting an official inviation in the mail; but they're the only ones...
bella62307
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I had trouble with this too. Paid vendors don't get an invite, like someone else said, they are contracted to be there. As far as the priest or rabi or whomever, if they are close to your family and you wish to invite them then I would send them a formal invite but not the vendors.
BoxOfRocks
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I sent one to my officiant, but only because he asked me to. He said he keeps a 'portfolio' of invitations of the ones he's presided over.
