I'm literally being stalked by a vendor. She'll call me at work,cell, and at home. Tons of phone calls later. Yadda yadda yadda. I've decided not to book her cause this has gotten ridiculous. Long story but in the whole experience she was more than double other vendors and kept saying that she'lll negotiate which was annoying.
wc0143
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YUCK!!! I had a vendor email me every once in a while, like hey, ya book yet? The last one I got was like two weeks ago!!! Like with a month left, I was still looking!!
september2004
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next time she calls just start crying and say you and FH have called off the wedding - she will never call you again...
JimmysBride
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Posted by september2004
next time she calls just start crying and say you and FH have called off the wedding - she will never call you again...
That should work!
hbradio
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next time she calls just start crying and say you and FH have called off the wedding - she will never call you again...
Thats what I would suggest - or just tell her to go to hell already! I swear I dont understand people. I support a salesteam so I know how pushy they can be.
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next time she calls just start crying and say you and FH have called off the wedding - she will never call you again...
I did that once and the guy was like please take my number in case he changes his mind. I told him he was gay!! Ha
I also have not booked a vendor because they kept calling! I even tried taking their number and telling them that I would contact them when it was time for that specific planning, but they still called a week later!
oakslady
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my big suggestion is dont list your phone number - and if this person is annoying you tell them it is harassment and if they dont stop calling you will report them -
june262004
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I told him he was GAY Thats really FUNNY
I had Glenmar studios and the Wood bury Country Club both call me every Weds. Like Clockwork. I didn't book either one because of how annoying they were....
Honestly If you (the Vendor) are that Great then you wouldnt need to call me.... I should be knocking down your door for your business. Not that either one is bad they arent AT ALL. but to pushy for me.
Karacg
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I liked the advice ..... he's gay and marrying his gay lover!! (Then she'll ask for HIS number, I'm sure!).
I won't work with anyone pushy, or who back-stabs his/her competition. Very unprofessional..... are you that desperate?? Then you aren't that good!!
jj04
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They beg for business so they can not be that great anyway. Most good vendors are word of mouth. they do not stalk you.
bellepoque
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I'm so sorry to hear about your vendor stalking! Yikes. I hope you've been able to find a replacement vendor who doesn's prove to be as 'obsessed'.
MrsBrad
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thats really annoying - do they think desperation will help them get the job?
