Vent-20 days before my wedding and MOH is giving me grief.

AllJoy Posted: Aug 12, 2007 07:13 PM

Vent-20 days before my wedding and MOH is giving me grief.

I had my so called 'bachelorette party' last night and MOH was so rude and nasty to me. I just asked her what was up w/so and so who was so quiet and she blew up at me saying 'what is yourr problem, etc etc. I just asked a ?. She starting screaming at me and really ruined my night. Thats not it, theres been lots of other things too that there's no room to get into. I just can't take it anymore. If her kids weren't in my wedding, I'd kick her out. I don't need this stress. She has alot of personal stuff going on w/her life, but she doesn't need to take it out on me. Thanks for letting me vent ladies.

kellybean Posted: Aug 12, 2007 07:15 PM

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Im so sorry you have to deal with this....did you trying talking to her today?

lookitscassie Posted: Aug 12, 2007 07:22 PM

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wow thats bull. i cant beleive she blew up at you at your batcholorette party. who cares what kinda crap shes got going on. she needs to put that aside for the day and have it be about you. she better suc it up and atleast do that for your wedding day

empressdani Posted: Aug 12, 2007 07:47 PM

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Posted by lookitscassie

wow thats bull. i cant beleive she blew up at you at your batcholorette party. who cares what kinda crap shes got going on. she needs to put that aside for the day and have it be about you. she better suc it up and atleast do that for your wedding day

i totally agree...it was your day. You could have talked about her mother in a fit of rage and she should have been able to keep it together. I'm sorry you are dealing with this. Don't let it stress you...I'm sure you have enough of that right now. Concentrate on your big day!!!

luna bride x Posted: Aug 12, 2007 07:48 PM

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she owes you an apology.. you should try talking to her. maybe she realized that she's taking her drama out on you.

AllJoy Posted: Aug 12, 2007 07:52 PM

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Posted by mlny83

she owes you an apology.. you should try talking to her. maybe she realized that she's taking her drama out on you.

She has alot of personal stuff going on her life that is stressing her out. However, she doesn't have to take it out on me. I just asked her a ?. If we talk it out, she'll make me look like the bad guy. I'm going to avoid her. Thanks for listening Ladies.

AllJoy Posted: Aug 12, 2007 07:54 PM

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Posted by empressdani

Posted by lookitscassie

wow thats bull. i cant beleive she blew up at you at your batcholorette party. who cares what kinda crap shes got going on. she needs to put that aside for the day and have it be about you. she better suc it up and atleast do that for your wedding day

i totally agree...it was your day. You could have talked about her mother in a fit of rage and she should have been able to keep it together. I'm sorry you are dealing with this. Don't let it stress you...I'm sure you have enough of that right now. Concentrate on your big day!!!

Thanks for the advice. All I did was ask her about why one of the girls was so quiet and what the time of them were whispering about. I said it in a normal voice. Yes, its all bs. I'm going to forget it and just concentrate on my day.

Mooshyboo Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:05 PM

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sorry sweetie ~
i am sorry MOH is being like this....

Inkedupkitten Posted: Aug 12, 2007 08:35 PM

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WOW i am sorry to hear that..

Agreed she does owe you AT LEAST an apology...

You dont treat friends let alone the FB like that...

mwarner Posted: Aug 12, 2007 09:36 PM

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Hang in there, weddings sometimes bring crazy moods out of people who on a normal basis are quite nice. Try to focus on your special day and try to not let her bother you. It is hard but try to focus on your future husband and you =)

Good luck and hang in there...