Vent

1st I'd like to say that I am sorry I keep complaining lately. But thanks to those of you who listen and have helped me through all the crap I've been going through.

I can't take people being upset with me because of things that I am doing or have done for the wedding or in preparation for the wedding. It is so hard to keep everyone happy and I honestly don't need to hear when people are upset with me. I freaking bite my tounge when I am upset with people, why can't they just do the same? I am about to have a nervous breakdown. I have anxiety and trouble sleeping because of it. I guess I just need hugs.

IT IS YOUR WEDDING AND YOU DO WHAT EVER WANT!

i understand where you're coming from trust me. just do what makes u and FH happy - your wedding day is about u and your FH so think about yourselves before anyone else

Sweetie,

It's YOUR day. You are never going to please everyone but that's ok because this is all about you and FH. If anyone hurts your feelings you tell them it's your way or the Long Island Expressway!!!

Dont stress hunny just try and enjoy!!

I think alot of us know how you feel...
Everyone and their mother has an opinion, but be strong and remember its your wedding!!

Try to let the comments slide off your back, though I know thats not easy!

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Posted by Unapearla

IT IS YOUR WEDDING AND YOU DO WHAT EVER WANT!

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I AGREE WITH HER!!! THIS IS YOUR DAY!!

Oh sweetie I know just how you feel! I think we all do. Tylenol PM has been my best friend lately!



Like the girls said earlier, it's your day and you have to do what works best for you and FH. There is no possible way of pleasing everyone so just worry about pleasing yourself

dont be upset, just let all the tension slide away, go for a nice massage it will make you feel soooo much better!!!

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Posted by Unapearla

IT IS YOUR WEDDING AND YOU DO WHAT EVER WANT!

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exactly!!! itll get better, just take a breather..u can not please everyone and should not even be worrying about pleasing anyone but you and your FH!!try to ignore people's opinions and just focus on you and FH thats what getting married is all about you 2! not everyone else

You do what u want! Its ur day!!

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Posted by soon2bmrsdunn

1st I'd like to say that I am sorry I keep complaining lately. But thanks to those of you who listen and have helped me through all the crap I've been going through.

I can't take people being upset with me because of things that I am doing or have done for the wedding or in preparation for the wedding. It is so hard to keep everyone happy and I honestly don't need to hear when people are upset with me. I freaking bite my tounge when I am upset with people, why can't they just do the same? I am about to have a nervous breakdown. I have anxiety and trouble sleeping because of it. I guess I just need hugs.

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First off Vita....here's one of these

Unfortunately...when it rains, it pours. And I know you've been let down by people lately and upset, but keep your head up...It will get better And don't ever apologize for complaining, thats what we are here for.

Unfortunately, during this time, even those close to us, get very selfish, and forget that the wedding is about us, not them. It is not your job to keep everyone happy, on the contrary, they should be calming you and helping you out. I understand that this is supposed to be the happiest time in your life, but it does come with stress. Unfortunately Vita, you have been presented with lots of unneccessary stresses and woes that shouldn't have been there to begin with.

I admire you for perservearing...and mainly..for biting your tongue!!! Maybe you need to sit down and talk with these people who are upsetting you. And don't let them get to you...and be stern. And tell them that how they are making you feel is not right, nor very courteous.

I am the worst to get advice from on this subject because I'm the first to tell off someone who does this to me. Selfish Selfish Selfish!!!!!

I love ya girl!!! And you will get through this. You are a sweet and patient person...and this will all come back to you ten fold. And for those giving you agita...It will get back to them 50 fold!!!!

We're here for ya...whenever you need

And Remember (taken from Family Guy)

To often we loose sight of lifes simple pleasures! Remember, when someone annoys you, it takes 42 muscles in your face to frown but, it only takes 4 muscles to reach over and BI**TCH-SLAP the (insert favorite word here)!

I agree sometimes things just need to be said.
But, take a break and do something good for yourself. Like a hot bath!

I know a lot of people say a lot of rude stuff to me when they shouldn't about my wedding ( and other stuff ). I just don't understand what people are thinking. We have to keep out heads up high.