Vent

Hey all!
My wedding was July 7. I had 5 BM and 1 MOH. No one threw me a Bachelorette party and I don't know why. It really still makes me upset. I never wanted a stripper, but I did want all of us girls to go out, maybe to AC or The City. Or do whatever. Then 2 weeks be4 the wedding, I threw a Bridesmaid Luncheon in which I treated all the girls, and someone remarked 'well this is kinda ur bachelorette party' and the comment still to this days really annoys me. . . . Will I get over this in time? Because I hear about all these upcoming bachelorette parties, and I can't help feel upset. my Dh's 2 sisters have kids, but the husbands and my DH parents could have watched them (so I would have understand if AC was out of the question). My MOH has a saughter (2 yrs old) my mom offered to watch her that whole night if needed, and my other cousin has a 2 yr old and her family offered to watch the kid as well. They all had sitters and most of them are 'well off' so why didn't they ever throw me one? Im not trying to sound like a brat but it still bothers me! I guess I'll get over it in time????

i'm so sorry to hear that!! i don't know if you'll ever get over it. i guess only time will tell. i hope you at least got a bridal shower. have you ever mentioned anything to them? maybe if you do it will help you get past it.

it really *****. sorry. i think every gal desevers a bridal shower and bachelorette party - no matter how small or big it is.

I did have a nice shower. . . .
But no, none of them are tight with money. One of them is alittle, but she could have did it, she even said she would! So on my HM, on the flight, I was like 'well i guess i never got a bachelorette party.' MY FI(DH) sure got a nice one!

I totally understand why you are upset- I would be too. Out of all your bridesmaids you had, not one of them thought about throwing you a bachelorette party? Wow Im so sorry to hear this, No, you are not being a brat at all. Every bride deserves a bachelorette party. It is so unfortunate that this happened to you. IMHO, that was very inconsiderate of them- even if they didnt have the money to throw you the bash of the year, still, they could have done something to celebrate your marriage. Afterall, they are special enough for you to ask them to be in your bridal party, they should be honored and WANT to throw you something. Even if it was a dinner or someplace local for drinks.

Im so sorry to hear this. Im sure in time, you will forgive, but I totally understand if you never forget.

yeah it makes me upset, mad, angry!!! still! and its been 5 months since my wedding day.l
they did talk about doing it, and never followed through. . . . :(