VENT!
I usually don't vent on here, but I just am so aggravated!
Long story short, I have had issue with almost all of my BM's since the beginning b/c they couldn't decide on dresses, were unavailable to try on dresses (I ended up picking a dress and telling them to go to the store themself to order it), didn't respond to any questions I had unless I emailed or called at LEAST 3 or 4 times, etc...
Also, my MOH has been unavailable for many reasons that I have tried to be understanding about (she lives upstate, has some of her own things that have been stressing her out, etc..). So one of my BM's has taken on alot of the MOH's duties. One of the most important being the bachelorette party! I am only getting married once and I want it to be fun and fabulous darn it!
Anyway, so it has become clear to me that my MOH has lots of ideas, but has not communicated plans to the BM's, has not actually planned anything, and my BM (that has had to take on alot of MOH's duties) has tried calling & e-mailing both MOH and other BM's to discuss what ideas they may have for the party, tentative dates, budget, etc.., but has gotten minimal to no response. This has apparently gone on for months and my BM finally told me about it b/c she said that she had tried everything, but no one was responding and she was afraid that I would be upset if the party did not get planned or turned out half a$$ b/c pple did not get it together. I called MOH and asked her briefly what was going on and she confirmed that BM's had not gotten back to her about things and that she is just continuing to create ideas in her own mind ...SIGH..so she just not pulling the BM's together and I'm disappointed and just kind of done with it. They are all adults and I shouldn't have to facilitate things so much.. So I'm just aggravated at my BM's & MOH and everyone, and I just want to say screw it, I will plan to go to Vegas for a weekend, if you can come, cool, if not, that's okay too,
so that is my vent..sorry it's so long....
Long story short, I have had issue with almost all of my BM's since the beginning b/c they couldn't decide on dresses, were unavailable to try on dresses (I ended up picking a dress and telling them to go to the store themself to order it), didn't respond to any questions I had unless I emailed or called at LEAST 3 or 4 times, etc...
Also, my MOH has been unavailable for many reasons that I have tried to be understanding about (she lives upstate, has some of her own things that have been stressing her out, etc..). So one of my BM's has taken on alot of the MOH's duties. One of the most important being the bachelorette party! I am only getting married once and I want it to be fun and fabulous darn it!
Anyway, so it has become clear to me that my MOH has lots of ideas, but has not communicated plans to the BM's, has not actually planned anything, and my BM (that has had to take on alot of MOH's duties) has tried calling & e-mailing both MOH and other BM's to discuss what ideas they may have for the party, tentative dates, budget, etc.., but has gotten minimal to no response. This has apparently gone on for months and my BM finally told me about it b/c she said that she had tried everything, but no one was responding and she was afraid that I would be upset if the party did not get planned or turned out half a$$ b/c pple did not get it together. I called MOH and asked her briefly what was going on and she confirmed that BM's had not gotten back to her about things and that she is just continuing to create ideas in her own mind ...SIGH..so she just not pulling the BM's together and I'm disappointed and just kind of done with it. They are all adults and I shouldn't have to facilitate things so much.. So I'm just aggravated at my BM's & MOH and everyone, and I just want to say screw it, I will plan to go to Vegas for a weekend, if you can come, cool, if not, that's okay too,
so that is my vent..sorry it's so long....
