Vent

This is long...the nerve of some people!

Can you believe my aunt, who's son is getting married next year, called my mother last night and told her to tell me not to book my wedding at the hall that I chose. She went on to say how the hall is not what it used to be and that it is so overrated, and that I should continue to look around. (which is bs) She also said how the banquet manager at the hall that they booked guaranteed them that they would be doing a better wedding for them than my hall would do! (If my hall ***** why are they comparing them?) The nerve! I happen to know for a fact that she wanted her son to book at my RH before him and his fiance chose their current hall and that the only reason they didn't book it was because the bride was adament that she wanted a different, more simple place.

So now, because her son isn't having it there, and she is jealous, she doesn't want me to either!!!!!! Ugh, what the heck it's not a competition it's a wedding! How dare she talk down my hall? Needless to say my mother was furious and I said that if she mentioned anything to me when I saw her that I was going to make her feel two inches tall. My father said not to stoop down to her level, but I can't help it, I'm just so mad. Why does she have to criticize my wedding to make herself feel better about her son's. Which she is OBVIOUSLY not happy with. Grrrrrrrr, am I wrong here?

wow that's rude!! dont let her change your mind!

I'm soooooooo curious to know what your hall is! cant wait until you tell us LOL!

That's BS, I'd be the type to go off on her and tell her a piece of my mind!! Screw her and do what you want! I have the opposite where my cousin just got married at The Swan Club and my family keeps saying to do it there and how great it was! She had this, this that and this. That is the reason why I DIDN'T look there, besides the 2 other weddings I have been too. I want something different that they aren't comparing at the same place. The sad part is everyone is always going to compare and that makes me nervous but, what can anyone do?

I know that I should pay her no mind, it's just difficult when you realize that people are actually mean enough to talk bad about the happiest day of your life! I know she's going to bad mouth my hall to other relatives because that is just the way she is. I don't think she realized that her son had already told me how badly she had wanted them to book my RH. So in the end, she's the one who looks dumb because she is transparent as celophane.

*Sorry for the secrecy, lol...Haha as soon as FH has some free time from work we're going to book. Believe me I can't wait to say it, I just don't want to jinx, I'm superstitious!!!!!

I cannot believe the nerve

Some people have absolutely no class!

Do what you want where you want! for crying out loud, she's not even your MOTHER!

Screw the beeotch

What nerve!!! That really ***** that you are going through that! You know what happens now right? On all other things, you know not to let anyone in on the details....

I have a very nosey side of the fam and when i was on vacation with them, they wanted to know every little thing... I had some details to tell, but purposely didnt open up my mouth to anything... I had pics of the place on my camera too, but I wasnt gonna go and show them! I even lied and said I had no clue yet what date I wanted... Just knew it had to be in the summer sometime

This is what it comes down to... B/c once you open your mouth, someone will always have something to say in a negative light...

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

This is what it comes down to... B/c once you open your mouth, someone will always have something to say in a negative light...

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I totally agree here. No one knows what we have in the works, it is just better that way sometimes.

Sorry your aunti is being a witch about thing If you get the opportunity to give her a piece of your mind, get it off your chest so she knows where you stand.

I would say something if she brings any snide comments to you....but get her where it hurts....have a FABULOUS wedding (which you will) and that will be all you need to do to have the last laugh!! Sometimes weddings seem to bring out the worst in people!!

OMG