alright so i'd rather not get into details.. but my FSIL is mad at me because she thinks i told someone something about her and i didn't. I'm so upset about it but i refuse to try and talk to her about it since she's never confronted me. Anyway, I know I shouldn't but I get all upset when I see my fiance talking to her. I know family is family.. but i feel like I should be stood up for. Now she made a myspace and didn't add me as a friend. It's so stupid but i'm so upset. My fiance says she's not getting involved that it's between me and my FSIL. What would you girls do or expect?
sassygirl9
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I know it's tough, but I think you're fh is doing the right thing. It's between you two and you should work it out. You may feel awkward about it, but talk it out with her, if you have a close relationship. If you don't then let it go ...you'll both have to get over it. As for the myspace, I would let that go. too
kimNanthony
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I think you should try and talk to her and find out why she's angry with you. If you explain that you didn't say it I'm sure this will help the situation. Communication is key!
Mici n KC
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Definitely try talking to her. She is going to be your family. Just tell her you are very upset that someone has started this ugly rumor. She should appreciate your honesty.
Autumn08
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I think you should talk to her about it.
I don't think FH should get inbetween unless he can help the situation between the two of you, I'm assuming that he doesn't feel he can that's why he doesn't want to be involved. But he should be willing to support you and let you vent.
bemyyoko
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from someone who doesnt really get along with their SIL... don't put your FH in the middle of this.
My SIL and I do not get along. Never have. My brother stood up for and defended his wife, the way i'd want my FH to defend me... however, my brother and i will most likely never be the same again.
You two are adults, try to figure it out yourselves. Talk to her about it, tell her how upset you are that she thinks you'd do something like that. Let the myspace thing go. Myspace is only good for one thing... causing drama.
