vent

Have I ever vented here ? well here goes

My FMIL is up my u know what about a bloody ketubah. I finally told FH to take care of it

FMIL would have liked the invite responses going to her - not a chance!!!!

We ordered the invites, and FMIL is working on the address list - would I like her to print, or email it, in a spreadsheet or a document? Just get it to me

FH still has not completed his guest list, and has almost no addresses

FH still has one GM to ask to be in the wedding party

We are still looking for a florist

We haven't really booked the ceremony music, because HE needs to review the music they play

The reception hall, which I thought only hosted one party at a time is having a second party in a smaller room (the one we are using for the cocktail hour) for a party while we have our reception

I'm still the same weight I was 2 months ago, and I have NO willpower with the vendor holiday candy in the office

I have a headache bc I ate too much candy today

I really just want to go home, climb into bed, and wake up 5/23 tanned and 20 lbs lighter, to a perfectly planned wedding.........

I wish I could just plan this whole thing BY MYSELF

I know the the stress you are feeling! And the fact that they aren't making it any easier on you does not help. I think you should be honest w/ everyone & tell them that you need them to leave you alone & that things will get done when they can!
John & his family have had no real say in the wedding. They just call & say how's the plans & John justsays fine. All I get from him his 'whatever you want it's your wedding' that ticks me off to no end. (a little part of the reason why I booked Imagine was he won't help why should I go nuts searching for more people)
I can't imagine what you are going through. Besides the stress of all the plans & your commute to boot!! But if you need to vent you know that I (& I'm sure the others) are here for you!!! I know you did this a few weeks ago but maybe you should try another break from the plans (if you want) and start fresh w/ the New Year. Who knows you might feel better tomorrow!!!
HUGS

Helen, vent on !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I know it gets frustrating, but take a deep breath Take a relaxing foam bath, with candles, by yourself, and tell yourself what a knock-out you are. You are beautiful, 20 lbs or not, I dont even know why you're trying to lose
Relax, and come to us with all your troubles. Here's another hug

BTW, Len is also turning out to be a good-for-nothing these days too
But I wont even sweat it, I'm just doing my thang with my sisters, they are so more fun anyway

Well the vent is over. thanks everyone

I didn't go dancing last night and I had a night home. I put my tree up and relaxed.

FH is gone away for the weekend, and I am not doing any wedding stuff - all Christmas stuff. I need more decorations, and I might try to make some.
I am going to cook and bake, and go to the movies, and have an early Christmas with my family

oh, and go to the gym

Sounds like a plan

I'm glad you're feeling better.