vent!!

Kerri Lynn Posted: Jun 10, 2009 05:38 PM

vent!!

So, FH just called and let me know that one of his friends backed out of the wedding because his wife was pissed that she is not in it, he didnt exactly say that but I know its the reason. I have 2 BMs and one GM that are also married and there partners dont care at all. FH was just like whatever and Im more upset then he is. Now I have to find another guy. UGHHHH sorry needed to vent.

little j Posted: Jun 10, 2009 05:40 PM

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if your GM stays up at the alter with FH, and you have your BMs walk down the aisle alone, you really dont need another GM....especially if they have their own dates who will be there as guests.

but its up to you

right now we have 6 and 6...but i have a feeling we will be only have 5 and 6 at the end....

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Jun 10, 2009 05:42 PM

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That happened with someone I know too. It's so childish and self-centered. I'm sorry you're going through that...good thing it happened NOW as oppossed to a month before (as was the case with the person I know who it happened to!)

W-T-F is wrong with people?!

GR2010 Posted: Jun 10, 2009 05:49 PM

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That *****... why are people so friggin petty?

Right now I have 8 guys and 6 girls but I have a feeling that one of the the girls is going to fall off the face of the earth... just a hunch...

bulldoglover Posted: Jun 10, 2009 05:50 PM

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that drives me crazy. i think being asked to be in anyone's bridal party should be considered an honor and should be treated as such. i'm sorry you're having to deal with this.

StaceyWill Posted: Jun 10, 2009 05:51 PM

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Posted by Kerri Lynn

So, FH just called and let me know that one of his friends backed out of the wedding because his wife was pissed that she is not in it, he didnt exactly say that but I know its the reason. I have 2 BMs and one GM that are also married and there partners dont care at all. FH was just like whatever and Im more upset then he is. Now I have to find another guy. UGHHHH sorry needed to vent.

Ugh! people are so rude! it's an honor to be asked to stand up for someone at their wedding and people treat it like it's nothing...

RitasEngaged Posted: Jun 10, 2009 05:53 PM

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That is a dumb reason

Kerri Lynn Posted: Jun 10, 2009 05:56 PM

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it just pisses me off that he wont man up (haha) and admit that that is the reason. Shes a biotch and I wouldnt have her in my wedding to begin with but seriously GROW UP your still coming!

MarjorieFrank Posted: Jun 10, 2009 06:51 PM

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That is soooooo stupid!!! WOW.. I feel bad for that guy because he's married to someone like that! Why would you care if your hubby was in a BP and you weren't?? That stinks... Sorry....

CristinanBen2010 Posted: Jun 10, 2009 06:52 PM

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Ahhhh!!!!

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Jun 10, 2009 06:54 PM

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That is lame!

However, I did add our 2 best men's wives because the 1 we wanted to include for him (we're friends don't get me wrong, just not besties) and the other is my FSIL and I couldn't have EVERY OTHER PERSON in her family in the BP and not her, KWIM?

So I had to make accomodations on my own personal circumstances, but if you're not close that is no reason for her husband to be pizzy and back out!