FH and I got in a huge fight last night and im not even 100% sure what even started it
My son walked into the bathroom while i was in there and his head was all red looked like he hit so i picked him up and said aww what happened to your head? what did you do?
and My FH flips out like screaming and yelling telling me i always blame him for stuff and he is done watching our son if he can't do it right
i was like what the *** are you talking about...so he left and goes to his mom's while i go to class now pissed off beyond belief
and then this morning..he texts me, why do u always nag me about the baby? I didn't even say he did anything in the first place
Sorry for the vent..i just don't wanna bring any friends or family into this but im really hurt by this! i was so close to packing a bag, grabbing my son and going to spend the night at my sisters house because i couldnt even sotmach to look at him!
B853
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Awwwwwwwww I'm so sorry
I just want to say that my initial thought reading this is, only a guilty conscience tries to turn the focus around to something else. Do you think he could have really done something? It seems like it was a strange reaction from someone who didn't....like he was defending himself too early....because he'd actually done something??? Does that make sense?
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did you ever find out what happened that his face looked red and like he had hit it with something? why would he flip out like that if youdidn't say anything to him! i'm so sorry you had to go through this yesterday but i would def be curious as to why he flipped out. have you spoken at all today?
DCgirl82
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Awww Im so sorry When you said 'what did you do' you were talking to your son right? not FH?
allornil
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MEN! Ugh! lol
I bet he thought you were blaming him for being neglectful bc he wasn't paying attention to what you were saying. They're dumb like that.
He prob felt bad your son hurt himself while he was watching him.
Give him time to stew and he'll be fine. later you can say I never said you did anything and it hurt me that you acted that way.
My son is fine and I never thought you were neglectful.
it will be squashed.
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Posted by bethie853
Awwwwwwwww I'm so sorry
I just want to say that my initial thought reading this is, only a guilty conscience tries to turn the focus around to something else. Do you think he could have really done something? It seems like it was a strange reaction from someone who didn't....like he was defending himself too early....because he'd actually done something??? Does that make sense?
thought the same thing...when i asked him what happened he said he head butted me so why react the way you did and if u did miss something just own up to it dont blow it into a huge fight if he really did just head butt you
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Posted by Moonmist09
did you ever find out what happened that his face looked red and like he had hit it with something? why would he flip out like that if youdidn't say anything to him! i'm so sorry you had to go through this yesterday but i would def be curious as to why he flipped out. have you spoken at all today?
i spoke to him threw text messages mainly because i was at work this morning and he is working late tonight...but even then he was like i dont know what to say without making this worse
Posted by DCgirl82
Awww Im so sorry When you said 'what did you do' you were talking to your son right? not FH?
yes i was talking to my son not my FH...even tho my son is only 13 months and cant answer lol
