VENT!!

Why is it that people cant do the simplest of things??? I have a million things to do for the wedding ... if I ask you to do one, just one thing, why cant you do it! I am so frustrated right now I just had to share! UGH!

Ive been a BM so many times, too many times, and did what I was asked without hesitation. I am so annoyed!

I'm sorry. I would be upset too bc I too have been a bm and gone above and beyond. I'm pretty sure most of my girls will step up to the plate but one I expect to give me a a little bit of hard time. Good luck to you!

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Posted by Im getting Married

Unfortunately sometimes people suck

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Exactly

People truly don't take the real meaning behind BM serious! I had the SAME problem and my bridal party was completely useless! 3 of my BMs were planning a wedding so that was their excuse. Excuse when their weddings were over they were busy making a home or getting situated or blah blah blah! I was planning a wedding too and did everything I was asked and more! I even cleared my day for the day before for all my BMS getting married but they could only 'stop by' the day before mine. (now I'm venting sorry)

I watch Bridezillas and want to strangle them and tell them 'you're lucky your BMs are even showing their face'! People really do s*ck!

Sorry you have to go through this!

I know =-(
I am on the same boat...
sucksssss....
=-(

just listening help girls, so thanks! i am just frustrated and its certainly raising my blood pressure! just really upsetting when i stop and think about it!

Just beat them...jk...lol.
Yeah- I wanted my MOH's and bridal party to wear a red rose in their hair...yeah- they don't wanna do it!!!
oooohhhh...just wait till you gotta get the dresses for them...That's gonna be a doozie (sp?)!!

Sorry.. people suck.

Don't expect anything from anyone and you'll never be disappointed.

sorry!

just know you are marrying the person of your dreams!

i dont think the reality (whether true or not) that people suck is helping ...

just disappointing ... and cat, ive picked it out! there is no need for their input at this point! i LOVE it as i should ha ha!

ughhh so sorry

ooh yuck sorry you have to deal w/ that BS!!!

same boat. i say we replace the bp with liw girls

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Posted by CantWaitMrsH

Why is it that people cant do the simplest of things??? I have a million things to do for the wedding ... if I ask you to do one, just one thing, why cant you do it! I am so frustrated right now I just had to share! UGH!

Ive been a BM so many times, too many times, and did what I was asked without hesitation. I am so annoyed!

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If you don't mind me asking - what did you ask her to do that she didn't do? Just curious....

i feel your pain!

i totally know how you feel...Im in the same boat. Not just as a BM but as a friend I always go above and beyond

my BMs (with the exception of 2) are not being very helpful

just have to learn to not expect much from them!