VENT!!

SOOO annoyed with FH... he has the nerve to sit here and tell me that i am losing sight of what the wedding is about and getting too emotional about the wedding planning. IM SORRY BUT YOU ARE NOT THE ONE SPENDING COUNTLESS HOURS going though tons of vendors, worrying that you pick the wrong ones, trying to keep on budget, trying to get just a piece of what you always imagined for your wedding day. I mean must be nice to sit there and say 'i like this, i hate this' when you dont spend a minute on the actual search. Must be nice to just show up when everything is said and done and then judge me when i get frustrated.. UGH! cant believe him!

LOL sorry - needed to get that out!

Oh I'm sorry love! maybe just try to talk to him, try to get him more involved and then he will see what you are actually going through.

I FEEL LIKE MEN ARE NEVER INVOLVED! i cant even get mine to come scan stuff for our registry. I'll help you if you want <3 I'll be your fake fh =] (i know you wont love me as much as him but ill try!)

ugh men!! i know totally what you are going for! we are 31 days away from our wedding and FH had the nerve to tell me that I'm too wrapped up in this wedding and that I'm making a big deal out of everything and that there are far worse things out there like people dying and hungry and that we are spending all this money on one day....and it goes on!!

how can they be so insensitive when we put so much into planning these events! trust me, i'm trying to stay calm but it's hard sometimes!

i feel you on this!!
FH told me i took the 'fun' out of wedding planning bc i talk about it all the time.
i told him its HIS wedding too. He said he just wants to show up, and after one too many times of him saying that, i stopped running ideas past him until he felt left out. now we are good again. i just sum it up to, differnt things excite differnt people.
dont let it bother you too much. he loves you!

Sorry chica...
Men never seem to udnerstand what we go thru.....