Would you ever consider not going to your BEST FRIENDS batch party?
Like I dont get it; at last min my bff tells my MOH she might not be able to go. I am so SICK of people being so SELFISH. I've never been more hurt in my life than by what my BM's have been doing to me these past months. I wish I just eloped and had a VERY small bridal party. For one day can it just be about ME? I am ALWAYS there for them and when it is my day I get crapped on. I thought this whole experience was supposed to be fun... im OVER IT
sandr325
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Sorry you are going through this when you should be happy and finalizing all your wedding plans.
Unfortunately true colors come through and not to sound petty, but this is how you will have to treat people in the future. I hope your BM at least at the courtesy of letting you know and not just your MOH.
jassy119
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I'm so sorry to hear u are going through even more drama with your BP. I honestly would kick those causing u so much drama out the wedding! But that's just me. Does your BFF have a legitimate excuse as to why she can't make it to your Bach party? If not, then that's really crappy of her. Like 'sandr' said above, maybe your so called friends are showing their true colors. Sucks but at least you will know who your real friends are. Try not to stress and I'm sure no matter who shows up your Bach party will be awesome!
Shanti12
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Sorry that's happening with you! There were a few girls here with bach party/shower dramas so it's not you! I had a couple disappointments that didn't show up to mine and they could have at least come to dinner These are so called 'good friends' of mine but I see where that is going. And I even had a low key dinner at a nice restaurant! I say just go with it for now, if they can't be there for you then after the wedding that will become apparent. It does suck and I hate how selfish people can be until it comes to their wedding and then suddenly they are complaining.
EAY213
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I feel you. My own family (aunt and cousins) decided they don't want to go to my shower because one of them is having a birthday that day and they want to celebrate it. NVM that birthdays happen once a year and i'll only have one wedding shower ever. NVM that birthdays can be celebrated any day…or even that night (my shower is during the day) and that they'd all be together anyway if they came.
People are selfish and mean…even people we call family and friends. Don't let it get to you because there are people who DO care enough to be there…and that's what matters most. All the others can eff off.
