Ok...so about 2 weeks ago my FH's grandmother passed away. She lived a long healthy loving life. Well, to my surprise FH's ex gf shows up at the wake and decides to chew my ear off about her recent wedding. How she had to get married in July since her and my FH were going to get married in May and how I should book my reception at this hall that charges $250 a head and that we should totally book the 16 piece band she had.....but if I want to save money I CAN WEAR HER WEDDING DRESS!!! Yes...that sounds like a brilliant idea. I can't make this stuff up! They dated for 4 years and have been separated for 7 so I'm honestly not worried or jealous but to be honest I'm in completely shocked and disgusted that she would have the nerve to show up and say those things to me. What bothers me the most is that I didn't say one word back to her. I can think of 100 things I could have and should of said but I was silent. Its been eating at me for days now. Am I crazy to still be thinking about this?
SSteph903
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Dont let it bother you.. Your the one with him now!!!! who cares what she says.. Some people like to show up and even lie to sound 'cool'... she clearly came to the wake for the wrong reasons.
Dont let it bother you.. You have a wedding to plan!
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I don't think it's odd that she came to the wake but her inapropriate conversation with you was uncalled for! Just remember you have him and she just wants you to think she is happy....which if she was she would have come to the wake said her condolenses and left. IMO
IrishAli
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I think it was ok that she went to eh wake....maybe she was just trying to show off to you? People do strange things!
FutureWifey
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That girl (not woman) has some nerve showing up there like that. Obviously she just wishes she could be with him instead of whatever miserable marriage she has that she needs to live vicariously through you. Just be happy that you are the bigger person. Obviously she's beneath you. It should empower you. Why be angry?
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Thanks for the support. She had every right to come and pay her respects but the things she was saying were so inappropriate. She even started naming all the girls he dated since her. I just wish we were some other place at some other time so I could just give her a piece of my mind. I would never disrespect my FH or his family.
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it was wrong what she said to u but people are so stupid.. u were totslly right in not going off on her n just keeping cool ;) now if u ever run in to her at that new sonic weeeeeeeeeeeelll then ya can let her have it! lol
JessNicole7EM
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Honestly, don't be upset.
Frankly, I think it's funny. She sounds like a psycho.
FutureJOC
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As far as being at the wake, I think it was very nice of her to pay her respects. I know that if any one of my ex's close relatives passed away I would make it a point to go to the wake and pay my respects even though we don't talk anymore.
BUT, that was totally uncalled for for her to bring that up and especially bring it up at the wake! I wouldn't worry about it too much. It just sounds like she was trying to get a dig in you to stir up drama but you stood your ground and didn't say anything back. You're the better person./
KellyandFrankie
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some people are completely clueless and classless. sorry you had to listen to that nonsense!
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Posted by JessNicole7EM
Honestly, don't be upset.
Frankly, I think it's funny. She sounds like a psycho.
exactly what i was thinking. u can wear her dress?????? great idea!!!
DonnaMarie7
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I can't believe she offered you her wedding dress! Who DOES that???
At least your FH will have a normal wife
ewecki825
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Wow. That is awkward.
Soon2BMrsJoeBear
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yea sounds a little crazy to me...
aj81610
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Ugh. people have some nerve. really. What ex girlfriend of a significant amount of time or at all would offer to let you wear her wedding dress! I most certainly would never have the nerve! Some people really amaze me!
KristynLeigh
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I can't even believe she offered her dress to you. I would have been speechless too.
chrisandjeanne
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I would have said sure ill wear it and then sell it and use the money... jk! thats sooo strange that she would even talk to you.
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WHATTTT!?!?!?!?!?!?!? That is just CraziNesS!!! Wow, some people are seriously nuts.... yay for you being able to not flip out on her! I prob would have just remained silent too though....I mean what do you even say to that! Shock, sounds about right....wow!
