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(VENT) I truly love my FH, but....

CarolAnn721 Posted:

(VENT) I truly love my FH, but....

I don't like him sometimes.

So last night, after my last BM ordered her dress (FINALLY FSIL GOT OFF HER UNEMPLOYED A$$, but that is another vent for another day), FH added yet another GM to our wedding party!!!

The only reason I even found out was because we were at the Florist, and something inside me told me to ask, 'You were at Sammy's house today. Did you ask him to be in the wedding party?' He replies, 'Of course I did.'

Seriously?!?!?!

It's surprising that someone who had hang ups in regards to getting married in the first place, is turning into a groomzilla and making our wedding party a circus. If he thinks he can add one more, I am kicking him out of the wedding.

I told him he can't make decisions without consulting me and blah blah blah, otherwise certain people will end up not even getting invited, like his sis or some lingering W.T..

The night ends, we make up, I calm down and he asks me if he can help sending out the invites when the time comes.
AdriandSteve Posted:

Re: (VENT) I truly love my FH, but....

I would agree to a specific # and have no if, and's or butts about it.

CarolAnn721 Posted:

Re: (VENT) I truly love my FH, but....

Well its too late now. If I could kick one of these d-bags out now, I would. I basically demoted his cousin to usher and that is that. Someone needs to walk the grandmas down anyway. LOL

Bride825 Posted:

Re: (VENT) I truly love my FH, but....

oh fh
halfbaked Posted:

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I feel your pain. I had a friend come up to me at a BBQ and tell me FH just asked him to be a GM. I had to wipe the shock off my face and hug him and say 'I know!!! He's been wanting to ask you for awhile! Congrats!!!' I'm over it. He can have a hundred GMs but I'm not adding more people to my BP!

ETA: We did originally agree to a number- 5 each! I stuck to it! He now has NINE gms!!

But what can I do? Tell them they can't be groomsmen and forever be the bad wife?! Oh well, I let it go!
CarolAnn721 Posted:

Re: (VENT) I truly love my FH, but....


Posted by jilliibabii

I feel your pain. I had a friend come up to me at a BBQ and tell me FH just asked him to be a GM. I had to wipe the shock off my face and hug him and say 'I know!!! He's been wanting to ask you for awhile! Congrats!!!' I'm over it. He can have a hundred GMs but I'm not adding more people to my BP!

ETA: We did originally agree to a number- 5 each! I stuck to it! He now has NINE gms!!

But what can I do? Tell them they can't be groomsmen and forever be the bad wife?! Oh well, I let it go!



Thanks!! I feel better now!!

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