VENT: is this a joke..

thanks girls i feel better! i was just more annoyed then anything that i got that message!

Honestly the closeness of the date to me isn't terrible...maybe that's because we are getting married like 2 months after FSIL and I want to make myself feel better

But that email is pretty effed up...maybe he's just so self absorbed he can't remember you told him the date??

that email is ridiculous.....some people are just rude! i would be ticked off if i were u....

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Posted by kristend

well the 1 and a half month difference is more of a big deal because my wedding is in new york and his is in illinois. that means our family will have to travel to both places in such a short amount of time. ..which is difficult.

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ok that is totally not cool because that would mean that some people depending on their budget might not be able to attend both. Not nice.

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Posted by kristend

well the 1 and a half month difference is more of a big deal because my wedding is in new york and his is in illinois. that means our family will have to travel to both places in such a short amount of time. ..which is difficult.

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Yeah that IS going to be difficult! Plane tix are not exactly super cheap you know?

The least they could have done was do it like June or July so there's some breathing room! That's annoying.

In regards to the response to the fb message, say something like, 'Oh you don't remember the date I mentioned to you? It was 12-4-10! I'm so excited! I remember when we chose that date, we had to go over so much like holidays and our friends' weddings, etc. Good Luck with all your planning! Let me know if you need any advice!'

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Posted by Becca2010

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Posted by kristend

well the 1 and a half month difference is more of a big deal because my wedding is in new york and his is in illinois. that means our family will have to travel to both places in such a short amount of time. ..which is difficult.

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Yeah that IS going to be difficult! Plane tix are not exactly super cheap you know?

The least they could have done was do it like June or July so there's some breathing room! That's annoying.

In regards to the response to the fb message, say something like, 'Oh you don't remember the date I mentioned to you? It was 12-4-10! I'm so excited! I remember when we chose that date, we had to go over so much like holidays and our friends' weddings, etc. Good Luck with all your planning! Let me know if you need any advice!'

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i would do the same...
date twin....my cousin is doing the SAME his fiance called all of my girl cousins to announce their date....at the time i was hoping for an oct wedding.... anyway all u can do is act like u dont care and still enjoy your day...it will all work out in the end!