vent (LONG sorry) so much harder than i thought

es2189 Posted: Apr 13, 2010 09:38 AM

vent (LONG sorry) so much harder than i thought

i'm so stressed that i haven't eaten in a week. granted, i've lost five pounds which is great, but it's NOT a good feeling. everything makes me cry. my lease is up on my house tomorrow and i'm not moving into my new house until the end of next week so for this 8-9 days i'm just in limbo. there are a billion things to do before we move out of our house tomorrow but i'm not even home until 10pm tonight. i had to get a new coordinator because i didn't feel comfortable with the one i had, so that's a nightmare. and she was going to do my flowers for me, so now i have to find a florist. my coworker has been being the biggest b!tch lately, which just makes everything worse. basically, i just feel like my life is SO out of control and i don't know what to do. my mom thinks i'm having second thoughts about the marriage, because i'm so upset, but it's really not that. okay, vent over. thanks for listening to my bullsh!t!!

Diana508 Posted: Apr 13, 2010 09:43 AM

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Emily - so sorry you're going through so much all at once!

I hope your new coordinator helps take some of this pressure of you.

As for the house, it'll all be over soon and just think about living in your own place. It's a GREAT thing! Think positive about it!

AgaBride062610 Posted: Apr 13, 2010 09:44 AM

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everything will work out

Future Mrs H Posted: Apr 13, 2010 09:45 AM

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You need lots of these hugs

AngnShaun Posted: Apr 13, 2010 09:46 AM

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canmigs Posted: Apr 13, 2010 09:47 AM

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flibbertigibbet Posted: Apr 13, 2010 09:49 AM

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okay first...

you gotta breathe woman.

one thing at a time!!

we can help you with stuff if you need us to!!!

hang in there. let us know what we can do to help!!!

elp6421 Posted: Apr 13, 2010 09:50 AM

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MayBride2010 Posted: Apr 13, 2010 09:51 AM

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es2189 Posted: Apr 13, 2010 09:52 AM

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Thank you everyone for the hugs! Things are just so crazy!! I was reading people talking about how it gets worse as it gets closer, but I never thought it would be THIS bad!! How are you girls doing it?? I just feel like there is SO much that it can't possibly all get done. And I'm so sure that 90% of my wedding stuff is going to get lost in the move

JennandAnthony Posted: Apr 13, 2010 09:56 AM

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Can you ask a bm or moh to store some wedding stuff at their house....isnt that what a bridal party is for to help out?!

Im sooo sorry you are going through all this...my mom always tells me that things will work out and get better and it always has, just hang in there and breath!!

jackieee Posted: Apr 13, 2010 09:56 AM

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Moving is a HUGE stress. Wedding planning can also be stressful. Hang in there. Everything will all fall into place soon!!Good luck with the move

JayBee216 Posted: Apr 13, 2010 09:57 AM

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Posted by es2189

Thank you everyone for the hugs! Things are just so crazy!! I was reading people talking about how it gets worse as it gets closer, but I never thought it would be THIS bad!! How are you girls doing it?? I just feel like there is SO much that it can't possibly all get done. And I'm so sure that 90% of my wedding stuff is going to get lost in the move

Why are you expecting your wedding stuff to get lost in the move????

Just breathe...there is a lot to do - I went through the same thing in the fall. Moving *****, but not one thing of mine was lost. Anything of top value/priority should be moved by you or your FH exclusively.

Rely heavier on your coordinator, and I'm sure everything will be OK!!!!!!!

Sandradv121 Posted: Apr 13, 2010 10:00 AM

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you need to breathe and eat. Take a personal day, and relax. you will be ok...

Ray8183 Posted: Apr 13, 2010 10:16 AM

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jennybee Posted: Apr 13, 2010 10:21 AM

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baby steps. take one thing at a time. remember to breathe and that this is just a short period of chaos that will be over soon. yes, it stinks, but you'll get through it a better person at the beginning of a wonderful adventure you and FH will take together!!!