Vent - MOH

sorry i know i have had alot of vents lately. don't know if i am losing my sanity or not.

is it asking too for my sister/MOH to just do one thing on her own??? to just take the bull by the horns & take charge of something.. Can i hear just ONCE... ' Don't worry about a thing, i will take care of it'. she always asks for the same information twice (i.e.: hair salons).

for example, i told her for her makeup to try & find some looks she make may want. Her response: how do I do that??? DUH look in magazines. google; 'bridal makeup'
then she tells me to do it for her .

i just can't take it anymore, i just want to scream i'm just tired of making ALL the decisions.

ok vent over... whew feel better

GET IT OUT
Some people are just like that, nothing sinks in, and they make you think LIKE duh

I'm glad you got that out and feel better

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Posted by Nicky0503

Don't feel so bad my sister is too busy too go for dress and I'm getting married in 5 months and every time I bring it up she gets annoyed. She doesn't even ask how my plans are going. Not even once. And she is my MOH. Wow now I feel better thanks.

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glad u feel better too... sounds like my sister. she has not ONCE asked my how plans are going. i had to take a day off work to go dress shopping with her. she didn't like going on week night. don't know why cos she doesn't work full time.

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Posted by Nicky0503

Is your sister married already?

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yes married with one son. so i get the ' i'm busy with my family ' attitude.

Well I know exactly how you feel and it really does feel better to get it off your chest. I was kinda feeling sorry for myself not having my sister to ask advise and help with my wedding. I see i'm not alone and neither are you . That's just how some people are. I guess we shouldn't take it too personal.
Don't stress it your getting married in a couple of weeks and at least you know your make-up will look fabulous.

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Posted by Nicky0503

Well I know exactly how you feel and it really does feel better to get it off your chest. I was kinda feeling sorry for myself not having my sister to ask advise and help with my wedding. I see i'm not alone and neither are you . That's just how some people are. I guess we shouldn't take it too personal.
Don't stress it your getting married in a couple of weeks and at least you know your make-up will look fabulous.

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aw, your not feeling sorry for yourself. there are alot brides in the same situations. Unfortunately this is the first time i have had problems with her. i can go on & on even with NWR stuff.

honestly, i have been trying to lay low with her so i don't get stressed out. but she calls with me all sorts of nonsense. she asked me about her hair weeks ago. now she is bugging me again & i sent her all the info

i just hope i don't lose it on her on my wedding day when emotions are running high !

good luck & try not to let her get to you