no explaination! NOT EVEN A NOTE. We were very close growing up....he got married to a lovely woman (sarcasm) ....havent spoken to him that mch but still IT IS FAMILY and now they say no? I went to their wedding!...that is just annoying!
honestly if it is like close family at least an explaination in the rsvp or freaking call me!
iT ISNT LIKE THEY DIDNT KNOW IT WAS COMING...I sent out STDS
ugh
ok now I sound ike a BIATCH!
vent over
thanks for listening
go back to your regularly schedule posting!
esb980
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I only have 2 cousins (that live in NY) on my moms side, both declined.... oh wait, one didn't even RESPOND... I went to bolth of their weddings... really puts things in perspective!!
diluvchu
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It's okay. Vent away! I know how you feel. I hated getting nos, especially from people I thought I was close to.
dbleplay17
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Posted by esb980
I only have 2 cousins (that live in NY) on my moms side, both declined.... oh wait, one didn't even RESPOND... I went to bolth of their weddings... really puts things in perspective!!
i know right
iffer042373
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Not even a note I have my best friends dad that couldn't make it and he at least put a note in why he can't make it. Thats jsut wrong no explanation.
Well I wouldn't sweat it. ITs better that they don't c ome since his wife is so lovely
dbleplay17
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Posted by iffer042373
Not even a note I have my best friends dad that couldn't make it and he at least put a note in why he can't make it. Thats jsut wrong no explanation.
Well I wouldn't sweat it. ITs better that they don't c ome since his wife is so lovely
this is true....just annoying....I wish my uncle was around...he passed when I was younger...he would be rolling in his grave!
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I hear you. I got some 'no' responses from people I've known since I was a child, and I gave these people STD's last summer. Some with no note, some will be on vacation, etc.
leighdvm
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I had the same things happen. Quite a few people who I would swear would come, sent back a 'no' with no explanation. It hurt.....
butterflybabe
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It does hurt. I got another today too. Then I opened a bottle of wine! I just wish I didn't take it so personally, but I can't help it. And I'm still waiting for 60 responses. Maybe I'll FH open the response cards from now on. I used to enjoy it.....
bethnsul2000
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wow i didn't think of that one...I guess I should plan for those late responses. No fun!
julybride06
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that's not right. a note should have been included.
beautyq115
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I have recieved explanations atleast on my RSVPs.....that is messed up that a close family member would never even send an explanation