Two days out from the wedding and I don't care if it even happens. I have so much todo. And everyone is flaky, crazy or making more work for me.
FMIL told me someone was not going and she asked someone else to fill the seat. But that person is only going if her sister goes who may not be going as well. So I may have two no shows. Where she could ask someone to fill the seat that can give a def yes!
Now FH is working a half day the day before and I'm left to do everything myself( as always) . He's stressed but I dont know why because he doesn't have to do anything!
JNB818
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I think you need a second to Breath...step away for a second I know you have a lot to do and your wedding is in a few days but somethings are beyond your control. As much as you may not like it you will have a few no shows...its happens! I know you are stressing because you are paying for those who did not show up but you cannot control everything and if you try you will overwhelm youself and miss out on enjoying your beautiful day. I hope all works out for you and I am sure your day will turn out beautiful.
renrico
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Just breathe. It is your day! There are going to be problems no matter who you are, how much money you have, how happy you are with the one you are marrying. Accept that there will be no-shows and probably people who said they would not come, who end up showing up. Day of problems always happen. Nothing is perfect. But if you are in love and excited to marry the one special person, then none of that will even matter. Screw everyone else and screw the problems. Deal with them as they come or have your maid of honor deal with them and enjoy your planning and your day. It will all be ok and all you will remember, will be the good times you had! Good luck hun!
JennieBee
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its almost here....relax, step back and enjoy all your hard work. if someone didnt drive you crazy before your wedding it would be bad luck lol congrats and good luck!
Bride2Be78
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Breathe. Unfortuntately, there are some things beyond our control. There will be no shows and we cant control that but dont let it ruin your day. What matters is you are getting married to the person you love. If you need someone to run errands with you ask your MOH or someone in the bridal party or even a family member. Good luck and remember to not stress. Happy Wedding Day. It's getting close!!
