ok so i'm basically planning a wedding for 200 people in 5 months time and not to toot my own horn but have gotten ALOT done with VERY little assistance - fine - story of my life. yet, now we're down to the last 23 days and i mention to FH how some friends have said i'm so calm blah blah blah - overall i am calm. i do get frazzled because its overwhelming and SO busy especially working full time and all that. So he tells me I'm not calm - because i've yelled at him a few times over 'unrelated' stuff. Stuff like him spending nights sleeping at a beach house in addition to the nights he's actually working... He does not comprehend that sometimes it would be nice or comforting just to have him around. Is it me????
October Bliss
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No, it's not you!
seta
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Bklyngrl
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yeah, yet when i tell him to grow up - you'd think i told him i was sleeping with his brother! frazzled means busy, i'm not losing sleep over what color to paint my nails . they just think all the little details make themselves and stupid as it may be the little details matter or at least they do to me... this is great and its 3 weeks away. It makes me NOT look forward to the day at all.
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sweetie, it's NOT just you - trust me on that! but try not to let it get you down or ruin your day. you're working so hard - you deserve to enjoy it. and when your FH sees all the work you did and how beautiful it all came out, i am sure he will appreciate it a bit more. guys just don't get it sometimes.
